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Im not totally against porn guys like people are assuming i guess i wasnt very clear as to why i was upset.. yes porn is what he was hiding yes it hurts my feelings now but only because he hides it and when i confronted him i never jumped down his throat or yelled at him i always was calm and simply wanted to know why he kept it from me as opposed to sharing the expierience with me... it just lights a fire under my a** because hes been hiding it for so long and has had sooo many oppertunities to at least let me join in on the action dam i might need some sexual stimulation myself i could hang but he dont give me a chance for what ever reason it is. So this question is for the men in here what is the best way to get him to let me in.. im not asking for him to only watch it with me but at least let me join him sometimes i want to be a part of it rather than him always hide for nothing when he has a wife that can understand so long as hes honest.
ehhh, maybe the dood just likes having some alone time every once in awhile. as youve already stated you dont mind the porn so i would just forget about it
This is soo true we dont have sex ofton his thing would stay in the case until i go get my damnthing myself. i have to be very agressive now to get him to have sex with me hes in love with his tv i can get out of the shower walk right in front of him and all he sees is modernwarfare behind me wtf...
yep! Wasn't like you caught him being Jeffrey Dahmer or looking at child porn. Put it into the grand scheme of life! Ok, he lied.....he looked at a pic! Kinda like saying, "yes honey, dinner was great" when you'd burned it. He didn't hire a prostitute or have an affair. He didn't kill anyone But, I do think hyper sensitivity to simple everyday things can cause someone to run for the hills and who knows???? Grant the man's penis/mind a simple break.
screw that he can have some alone time when he takes care of me first weve been married 7 years i cant deal with having sex only once everyother week for the rest of my life while he plays with himself everyday he has needs but so do i and this is not something a vibrator can take care of i need some skin to skin ........Oh and yes i play modern wafare too i actually enjoy but id turn it off for some sexin
This is soo true we dont have sex ofton his thing would stay in the case until i go get my damnthing myself. i have to be very agressive now to get him to have sex with me hes in love with his tv i can get out of the shower walk right in front of him and all he sees is modernwarfare behind me wtf...
Well, sounds like you have a child on your hands. A worthy husband would not have his eyes glued to a damn video game while his wife is walking by him naked and starved for sex. Sounds like a "Come to Jesus" meeting is in order.
screw that he can have some alone time when he takes care of me first weve been married 7 years i cant deal with having sex only once everyother week for the rest of my life while he plays with himself everyday he has needs but so do i and this is not something a vibrator can take care of i need some skin to skin ........Oh and yes i play modern wafare too i actually enjoy but id turn it off for some sexin
OK, this is key. Watching porn is one thing; watching porn while ignoring your wife and passing up opportunities to have sex with her is something else entirely. I agree with you rainx86 -- you've got a problem on your hands.
In a healthy relationship, partners seek to fulfill the others' reasonable sexual desires. Guys may often use porn because the wife/girlfriend doesn't want it as much as he does and/or is not into the the kinky, swinging-from-the-chandelier gang bang stuff one can find on the porn menu. In these instances I thinks that his porn viewing is pretty harmless (and some sociological studies are starting to suggest that a reduction in some sex crimes may be attributable to the increase in availability of porn).
But when hubby would rather watch a Sasha Grey sandwich on his computer than hop in the sack with his wife, then he's got big problems. He is shriking his duty as a husband. He ought to be be banging you every time you ask for it, and leaving Rosy Palms and Hewlett Packard behind. And he needs to understand that if he finds it too hard to give you some good lovin', you could easily find a hard man to give it to you good.
I agree with Seeniorita -- a big time talk is necessary here, and probably some counseling.
Last edited by professorsenator; 05-29-2010 at 03:38 PM..
Well, sounds like you have a child on your hands. A worthy husband would not have his eyes glued to a damn video game while his wife is walking by him naked and starved for sex. Sounds like a "Come to Jesus" meeting is in order.
Sometimes video games are just more fun. Like if I didn't have to leave for the Suns game right now...I would go dominate some PacMan and dominate little kids online. I was playing PacMan since before your mommy could read kid.
It would take an awfully special woman to make me put down my video games. I play at least 18 hours of video games a day.
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