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I really do not care how you take my comment, as I take the vast majority of what you say as nonsense.
I asked you to develop your thought and you couldn't, so what am I supposed to think about your comment?
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Originally Posted by Checkered24
25 pages of advice in this thread, a lot of it excellent, and it is still going on?
Jason, make your decision. Either go have some sex, or don't. You are belaboring this over months (maybe years). I know I posted a couple months ago with some advice and personal experience.
I think you have made this too big a thing. You are capable of a normal and healthy relationship. You have just talked yourself out of believing that. However, if you want to stay with that mindset, go do something else and stop torturing yourself by thinking about what you might be missing.
Ok, I've made my mind up. I won't pay for sex. Better leave things the way they are now.
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Originally Posted by lionking
3 months later she is seeing someone else and Jason is but a faded memory of a guy that acted like a idiot.
Fortunately. Why should she be wasting time thinking about what happened?
It's kind of like someone who never tried a drug. They never know what they are missing until they try it. Once he gets his d!ck wet he will wonder why he waited 30+ years...
He has no idea what he is missing.
A little hint: It's alot better than using your hand... LOL
The problem is that as us men age past 18, our sex drive drops. So you better get on board soon, or your gonna need that little blue pill.
I asked you to develop your thought and you couldn't, so what am I supposed to think about your comment?
I don't know and I don't care. You exasperate me and every other rational person who has posted on here in honest attempts to help you. You respond with inane, obtuse, disingenuous and, frankly, unbalanced responses that make me just want to wash my hands of anything having to do with you. Why do I think you are mentally ill? You are a 41-year-old man who is a virgin who is at the same time petrified of women and disparaging of the idea of having sex. You mean to tell me that's an indication that you're normal? Believe you me...you need professional help, badly.
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Can't really see the need to be offensive...
Yes, you have more than enough problems without me taking shots.......
. Just tell her the truth in person wherever you feel (the most) comfortable. Just tell her. What's the worst that can happen? She laughs?! So what that's the absolute worst. So what?! Who is she to judge you? You walk away and never see her again. You running that risk right now anyway. Without even trying!
This is your life. Take control of it. And if she does laugh she wasn't worth it anyway. But at least you'll know.
No regrets. Good luck.
Actually, Jason said he called her again and told her about his virginity. I guess you missed reading that post.
Actually, Jason said he called her again and told her about his virginity. I guess you missed reading that post.
Yes. I must have missed that one. I'll go back and read. I may be some time.
I do get the impression from the most recent posts that it didn't go well?
I don't know and I don't care. You exasperate me and every other rational person who has posted on here in honest attempts to help you. You respond with inane, obtuse, disingenuous and, frankly, unbalanced responses that make me just want to wash my hands of anything having to do with you. Why do I think you are mentally ill? You are a 41-year-old man who is a virgin who is at the same time petrified of women and disparaging of the idea of having sex. You mean to tell me that's an indication that you're normal? Believe you me...you need professional help, badly.
I never said I was 'normal' but don't worry, the problem is solved, I won't even try sex.
It's kind of like someone who never tried a drug. They never know what they are missing until they try it. Once he gets his d!ck wet he will wonder why he waited 30+ years...
He has no idea what he is missing.
A little hint: It's alot better than using your hand... LOL
The problem is that as us men age past 18, our sex drive drops. So you better get on board soon, or your gonna need that little blue pill.
I'm sure it's a lot better to have it for real but sometimes it's better not to do anything, in case you mess it up.
Yes. I must have missed that one. I'll go back and read. I may be some time.
I do get the impression from the most recent posts that it didn't go well?
It didn't go neither good or bad. I told her it wasn't her problem, she was fantastic, there was nothing wrong with her. And the explained her that things could never go right between us, because of my problem. And she moved on.
Jason you sound like you have given up entirely now. You should use this as a learning curve and persevere. You won't know unless you try and to be totally 'catchphrasey' there are plenty more fish in the sea.
You don't want to drown before you actually get to see them.
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Why should she be wasting time thinking about what happened?
LOL
