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I'm not a fan of the whole FWB thing. FBs I can get behind, but FWB, no. I finally can explain why - there is something strange about building a sex life with a person I genuinely like, knowing that romantic, loving intimacy is excluded. Sex just isn't as good for me if I have to hold back something that means so much. That's also why I say I can see having an FB - you aren't friends at all, there is no intimacy.
that's up to the person. I only seen where it ends badly. Personally I wouldn't engage in that type of relationship. IMO it's yet another way for males to get 'easy' sex without actually having to put much effort out. No thanks.
Dysfunctional people have dysfunctional relationships, no matter what type of relationship they try. Functional people can make just about any relationship type work, if they want to engage in that type because it appeals to them.
I do know what I am talking about. You don't put out and because other girls do, that decreases your chance of finding a man by a long shot.
So what am I supposed to do run around 'putting out?' Oh let me go do that right now for the sake of all men. LMAO. It decreases my chances? To that, a big fat 'oh well!' I'm not doing things simply b/c other people do them. Either way it's none of your concern.
Contrary to popular belief every ill opinion surrounding males is not 'bashing them.' And yea, that's my opinion on the matter I beleive that wholeheartedly or else I wouldn't have said it. Sorry to tell you, not everyone has to agree with FWB. Now, if other men and women are so darn happy with their situation -- it shouldn't matter what I think.
Why do you call them "males" and not boys or men? Do you have trouble seeing men as flesh and blood humans with thoughts, feelings and complex needs? Or are you just afraid of them? Do you have a father, brother, or a close friend who is a man?
Why do you call them "males" and not boys or men? Do you have trouble seeing men as flesh and blood humans with thoughts, feelings and complex needs? Or are you just afraid of them? Do you have a father, brother, or a close friend who is a man?
I'm seeing a pattern with her of late when it comes to these types of post. She doesn't seem to be a fan of men in general for some reason or another.
(to Doll Eyes)Why do you call them "males" and not boys or men? Do you have trouble seeing men as flesh and blood humans with thoughts, feelings and complex needs? Or are you just afraid of them? Do you have a father, brother, or a close friend who is a man?
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Originally Posted by Doll Eyes
Contrary to popular belief every ill opinion surrounding males is not 'bashing them.' And yea, that's my opinion on the matter I beleive that wholeheartedly or else I wouldn't have said it. Sorry to tell you, not everyone has to agree with FWB. Now, if other menand women are so darn happy with their situation -- it shouldn't matter what I think.
She used the word "males" in the first sentence probably because reed introduced the term first. I don't know if you're blind or what, but she went on to say "men and women".
Why do you call them "males" and not boys or men? Do you have trouble seeing men as flesh and blood humans with thoughts, feelings and complex needs? Or are you just afraid of them? Do you have a father, brother, or a close friend who is a man?
because I just do, sometimes use girls for grown women too. Is that alright with you?
no.
with good reason.
no.
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I'm not doing things simply b/c other people do them. Either way it's none of your concern.
