How do you cope with being ugly and hopelessly single? (girlfriends, female)

[Prince_Frog]

You put yourself in situations where being attractive or being ugly isn't an issue, and you're not thinking of women.

That's what I do. About as ugly as it gets, but with the stuff I do throughout my week I rarely think of women.

[freemkt]

Originally Posted by BradPiff

And that's expected, you can't get a victoria justice if your ugly and poor. That's life

I knew that's was the real issue, "ugly" people aren't mad because they won't get somebody(because they almost always do) theyre mad because they won't get the extremely attractive person they think they deserve.

There is no justice, period.

[bannedontherun]

I'd just load up on beer, porn and video games.

[RidleyValentin]

e-eto... I don't even care what other people look like outside of their control. What really matters to me is that you get up every morning and try to look nice. If you put in any effort at all it'll definitely be noticed. Of course I cant be perfect. I'm gay. So yeah. I might not be a woman, but I am proof of people that don't care about how you look as long as you take care of yourself. (Brush your hair, brush your teeth, not talking about gym 24/7 and plastic surgery and impossible 8,000 calorie diets!!) There's hope guys.

[abrandnewme18]

You can get rich.

[BayAreaDave]

What did the attractive person do to become attractive? Nothing. Judge people on their motivation and drive instead my friend. I am 5'7 and ugly. But I play college basketball, and attend one of the top ranked universities in the country. (I don't play for that university, I play in Junior College). I am also the shortest of my nationality in the world to get to the college level in my sport. When you work hard enough, you start seeing those qualities as attractive. Go get buff, go to the gym. Become a beast. Even if you are not good looking, you can still catch attention by sexualizing yourself.

[TJenkins602]

I don't know how to cope with being ugly. I don't have that experience now. Hopelessly single?

I wouldn't call it hopelessly single, but I am single and it looks like I am going to be single for a while. Now I have time to really build myself into who I really want to be.

[Poohbear1234]

I see people that I dont consider attractive in relationships all the time. I think you are putting too much emphasis on your appearance. Go out, meet people and try not to be so self conscious.

[bson1257]

I cope by drinking excessive amounts of alcohol and playing video games.

[49ersfan27]

Originally Posted by tonym9428

So I am 26 and never been on a date. I'm quite ugly, though I am in shape physically, well educated, and have a good white collar job. I just suck with women and it's extremely lonely being me. How do others who are in similar situation cope being ugly and single with zero prospects in sight.

I've seen a lot of unattractive people have dates. I'm not the best looking guy but I've got a girlfriend if someone as awkward as me can find someone then you can as well.