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Old 06-27-2013, 06:00 PM
 
Location: Toronto
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You bet I've seen it, and I won't believe for one second that I'm the only one (really, am I supposed to believe that you've never personally heard of a real-life instance, involving people you know on some level, where a man and a woman, acquainted for no more than four hours, have an alcohol-fueled one-nighter? I won't buy it).
I've seen friend's have ONS's, but the women were very much sober. If my friend's had been drunk, I would have intervened.

And yes, I'm serious. I have not seen that happen. I would never hang out with the kind of people who drink irresponsibly. They're lame.

 
Old 06-27-2013, 06:02 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Yeah, "Mr. Right" says he had 6...it's really 3.

"Mrs. Wrong" says she had 25...it's really 50.

Men 1/2

Women double
Are you still in Jr. high?
 
Old 06-27-2013, 06:05 PM
 
Location: Toronto
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Yeah, "Mr. Right" says he had 6...it's really 3.

"Mrs. Wrong" says she had 25...it's really 50.

Men 1/2

Women double
I don't know if my husband lied, but I told my husband the truth. Not worth lying seeing as he was well aware of a couple of my previous relationships. I'm aware some people lie. If you don't feel comfortable telling the truth, it's better to just not say.
 
Old 06-27-2013, 06:05 PM
 
Location: WA
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Originally Posted by GoCUBS1 View Post
The previous study I posted shows that the best way for a woman to satisfy a high sex drive, and have the highest variety of positions and the most oral sex, is to be in a monogamous, married relationship.

So many stereotypes on this thread.

Marriage Sex: The Truth About Sex After Marriage

“Studies have found that married people have more sex than single people, and they also have more varied sex” says sexual health expert and best-selling author Dr. Laura Berman, who hosts “In The Bedroom with Dr. Laura Berman” on OWN. ”Oral sex is also more common among married people.”
I think that's probably true for most women, but I don't, however, discard the reality that polyamory (non-monogamy) is a very real, innate behavior in human beings that not everyone is truly able or willing to suppress; a certain kind of maturity, though, is prerequisite in a person's ability to live this way responsibly (bar life isn't good for these types).
 
Old 06-27-2013, 06:05 PM
 
Location: Chicagoland
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I don't understand the fear/hatred men have of sexually open/confident women.
They are obviously missing out...
What's hilarious is that many of us have had very few partners - we just really like the partners we are with....

Another myth: Women who have strong sex drives must have been promiscuous / had lots of partners...
 
Old 06-27-2013, 06:06 PM
 
Location: Toronto
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Are you still in Jr. high?
He is rather strange.
 
Old 06-27-2013, 06:10 PM
 
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Are you still in Jr. high?
You weren't even born yet Jr.
 
Old 06-27-2013, 06:11 PM
 
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He is rather strange.
Nah, I just avoid hoochies.
 
Old 06-27-2013, 06:13 PM
 
Location: WA
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I've seen friend's have ONS's, but the women were very much sober. If my friend's had been drunk, I would have intervened.

And yes, I'm serious. I have not seen that happen. I would never hang out with the kind of people who drink irresponsibly. They're lame.
Drunken sex with strangers=bad, bad idea. There's fundamentally no experience to gain from it, there's plenty of room for negative consequences for either partners, and you'd usually be correct to intervene (however, a horny drunk, man or woman, isn't going to be easy to argue with).

If you're a stranger to drunken hook-ups personally and in terms of the people you associate with, good for you--I don't think your experience is all that widespread, however.
 
Old 06-27-2013, 06:14 PM
 
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I don't know if my husband lied, but I told my husband the truth. Not worth lying seeing as he was well aware of a couple of my previous relationships. I'm aware some people lie. If you don't feel comfortable telling the truth, it's better to just not say.
I've seen that backfire for women many times. They met a really good looking guy with all his stuff together. Some way or another that subject comes up. The guy is even a bit out of her league looks wise. She "assumes" he's been around and informs him of her 15+ partners. Come to find out he only had 2.

The look on their face is priceless with embarrassment and it's no wonder the dude bails on her.
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