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Old 03-05-2014, 07:40 PM
 
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Dont ever say that about yourself. You are a man and you have every right to approach any woman that you want to date as long as the time, place and circumstances are appropriate. If you're physically unattractive then you should probably approach women that are at or near your level of physical attractiveness but what I said goes. Make sure you hit the mouth wash and maybe use a scented body wash, then pull your ego up out of your shoes and go for it.
OK. I am always clean and so is my breath. I just do not wish to insinuate myself where I think I am not wanted. I do not wish to offend women. Thanks for the advice.
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Old 03-05-2014, 07:41 PM
 
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This has been the subject of too many WSO posts. Anyway, I blame the guy if he thinks that he deserves sex just because he buys her stuff.

Vas ist das WSO?
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Old 03-05-2014, 07:42 PM
 
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"When the odds are saying you'll never win / that's when the grin should start"
Lol.
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Old 03-05-2014, 07:59 PM
 
Location: Canada
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OK. I am always clean and so is my breath. I just do not wish to insinuate myself where I think I am not wanted. I do not wish to offend women. Thanks for the advice.
That right there is the problem. You're making assumptions about what others may or may not be thinking. You really need to get out of your own head and just get out there and live and do. The worst that can happen is someone says no, and that isn't the end of the world.
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Old 03-05-2014, 08:16 PM
 
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Let's cut the BS it's not that you don't wish to offend women it's that you don't wish to get rejected. It's not offensive to ask a woman out and you are not a nice guy for not asking women out. Just do online dating. All those women on there are looking for a significant other, they won't be offended by you asking them out.
What I stated is what I meant also I do not consider myself a nice guy.
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Old 03-05-2014, 08:22 PM
 
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That right there is the problem. You're making assumptions about what others may or may not be thinking. You really need to get out of your own head and just get out there and live and do. The worst that can happen is someone says no, and that isn't the end of the world.
I do spend an inordinate amount of time in my own head thinking. What bothers me the most is if I do take the chance what happens if my assumptions turn out to be correct?
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Old 03-05-2014, 08:28 PM
 
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Let's cut the BS it's not that you don't wish to offend women it's that you don't wish to get rejected. It's not offensive to ask a woman out and you are not a nice guy for not asking women out. Just do online dating. All those women on there are looking for a significant other, they won't be offended by you asking them out.
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Old 03-05-2014, 08:57 PM
 
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Old 03-05-2014, 09:03 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Old 03-05-2014, 09:09 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I do spend an inordinate amount of time in my own head thinking. What bothers me the most is if I do take the chance what happens if my assumptions turn out to be correct?
You're guaranteed to be turned down by most of the women you ask out. Everyone gets turned down. Women who approach men get the brush-off, too. That's the way it is. The people who are succesful are the ones who don't let the rejections bother them. They keep on keepin' on, and they get a few dates. The people who give up easily don't get any dates. That's how it works.
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