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I think attractive, outgoing, extroverted people have it easiest, regardless of gender. Unfortunately I am none of those things. Hence I'm 37 and have never been in a relationship.
That might be why you think the way you do. Just a thought.
Oh please, no one has it easier. Last I checked, dating requires equal effort to grow. And as a woman I will say its difficult getting a decent mans attention without looking desperate and fearing being physically ravaged by someones invasive body part then tossed like a used tampon. Guys dont get violated like this by women.
And we are the ones left with kids. If we are single mothers, 90% of guys run the other way.
So let me get this straight: Nobody has it easier, except men?
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That might be why you think the way you do. Just a thought.
No I think we came to that conclusion in various different threads. You can be ugly but if you're outgoing and extroverted you can still attract people. I'm wrong on all three: ugly, introverted, not outgoing. Hence no relationship for me.
Then there's the DELIGHTFUL experience of meeting 50 year old men with 13 year old brains, at my age.
Ugh...
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Speaking of off topic...
Actually it's quite on topic. The topic suggests that women have it easier in dating than men, so any thing to support or rebuff that notion is on topic. Slipper's comment seems to rebuff it, so it seems pretty on topic to me.
I think attractive, outgoing, extroverted people have it easiest, regardless of gender. Unfortunately I am none of those things. Hence I'm 37 and have never been in a relationship.
I'm not even close to being outgoing. But I've had women like me and dated them. It might have not lasted long but it is experience and it taught me. If I can do it, so can you.
Actually it's quite on topic. The topic suggests that women have it easier in dating than men, so any thing to support or rebuff that notion is on topic. Slipper's comment seems to rebuff it, so it seems pretty on topic to me.
Certainly, if you're the kind of person that thinks that arguments like that only come in one flavor. It's a fair assumption that maturity problems exist with both genders, and it would be hilariously naive of someone to believe otherwise. If you believe that you're dealing with a legitimate rebuttal in that regard, I don't know what to tell you
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