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She said she got it when she was "young" and hasn't had the money to remove it.
I'm aware of that
And he still had some questions
He should talk to her about those things instead of listening to the overly dramatic CD'ers.
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Not giving someone a pass because they lack motivation.
I would have little desire to talk to someone with a swastika and who asked me if I have ever dated a Jew.
That's fine. Don't date anyone you don't want to.
The OP apparently wants to date this girl.
In that case, he should talk to her about this and not listen to the overly dramatic CD'ers.
I had a girl ask me if I'd ever dated a Jew. She was a jew.
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Some of these responses are the reason why the Nazi's were able to do what they did.
So I have decided to go on a few more dates and just get a feel for her and if I see anything else that could be viewed as racist/prejudice I will break it off. She is very interesting, fun and really pretty otherwise. I really believe her. I really don't think she, or really other women would do Hitler-like things if it came down to it.
If I were in your shoes, I would do my best to assist her with paying for the tattoo removal. It would be a generous thing to offer to her. It would be far more beneficial to her than some piece of jewelry as a gift.
I'm aware of that
And he still had some questions
He should talk to her about those things instead of listening to the overly dramatic CD'ers.
That's fine. Don't date anyone you don't want to.
The OP apparently wants to date this girl.
In that case, he should talk to her about this and not listen to the overly dramatic CD'ers.
I had a girl ask me if I'd ever dated a Jew. She was a jew.
Which would those be?
All those who did not pay attention to the contents in the thread (how many pages ago was it addressed, that yes, ladies and gentlemen, it IS a swastika) and made excuses why it is probably ok, and rationalize that it is not what it looks (and sounds) like.
And please stop writing "Drama!" all over the threads. We can figure out that is going to be your response, and, it is overly dramatic.
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It's completely irrelevant to the issue presented in the OP.
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I'd recommend talking to the girl to get the correct context.
Makes sense, no?
He did.
Apparently, little head has decided that the tattoo and question about ever having dated a Jewish girl is not enough to prevent it from boinking an "otherwise pretty girl".
Because of the events of WWII, a swastika automatically comes with its own context.
It should be a full stop that requires no discussion.
I don't agree with you
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Originally Posted by Mikala43
All those who did not pay attention to the contents in the thread (how many pages ago was it addressed, that yes, ladies and gentlemen, it IS a swastika) and made excuses why it is probably ok, and rationalize that it is not what it looks (and sounds) like.
No. Accepting ideas as true without discussion is what allowed the Nazi's to do what they did.
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And please stop writing "Drama!" all over the threads.
I'll post whatever I want that doesn't violate the TOS
It's completely irrelevant to the issue presented in the OP.
It's absolutely relevant.
Asking "did you ever date a Jew" =/= nazi
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He did.
He did?
He asked about the tattoo. She said she got it at a different stage of her life.
What did he ask about her asking if he'd dated a Jew?
I may have missed that along the way.
She might be a disgusting racist Nazi
She might not
It might even be likely she's a disgusting racist Nazi
She might not
I'd advise the guy to talk to her over listening to the opinions of a bunch of people who've never met her.
It's absolutely relevant.
Asking "did you ever date a Jew" =/= nazi
LOL
Because a person with a swastika tattoo that admittedly came from a place of hate asking the question is the same as someone without this background asking the question.
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