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Nope, I'm from that area originally. I can recognize a yat a mile away. Just like I can recognize a yinzer from Pittsburgh and I've been to Mardi Gras.
But you can't recognize when you've been owned in the back seat of some "yat's" car, right in front of your woman.
But you can't recognize when you've been owned in the back seat of some "yat's" car, right in front of your woman.
You think I've been "owned" but Rbccl says:
"Admit that you enjoy the humble brag? You’re with her for her looks, so you “win” that one..."
Electrician4You says:
"You got a hot girlfriend. It’s just guys wishing they were in your position. Enjoy it. Don’t let it get to you. Think of it this way. At the end of the night you’re the one taking her home
You can always ignore the “banter”. If someone says something I find inappropriate I simply stare at them. Funny they get really quiet"
So your opinion isn't necessarily how everyone is viewing it.
"Admit that you enjoy the humble brag? You’re with her for her looks, so you “win” that one..."
You missed her sarcasm, apparently.
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Originally Posted by cBach
So your opinion isn't necessarily how everyone is viewing it.
Definitely not. That's how the world works. Not everyone agrees.
But I KNOW you know deep down that this chick is using you and that you've accepted that this kind of crass interactions are part of the price of admission when you walk around with someone who you admit looks she does porn. You think you're winning these little battles when you've already lost the war by letting yourself be a doormat. That's what RbccL was referring to.
When you lie down with dogs, you get fleas. You've just decided that you're ok with fleas as long as the dog licks your belly every once in a while.
Proof that I was in New Orleans (for BirdieBelle who doesn't believe we went there). Girlfriend captured this photo at around 4AM when we were done partying. This shows how artistic she is, she's a great photographer.
Proof that I was in New Orleans (for BirdieBelle who doesn't believe we went there). Girlfriend captured this photo at around 4AM when we were done partying. This shows how artistic she is, she's a great photographer.
Proof that I was in New Orleans (for BirdieBelle who doesn't believe we went there). Girlfriend captured this photo at around 4AM when we were done partying. This shows how artistic she is, she's a great photographer.
Hmm... I don't see BB doubting that you went to NOLA. Your whole "yat" does reek as if though it's something you've wiki'd. I don't think you banter very well, trying to zing BB as being mid/lower class NOLA native.
(I personally doubt that you're actually from the area, but that's neither here nor there).
The whole call girl situation is just stunning. Wow. Glad at least she accepted the trip in lieu of the boob job. Smh.
Definitely not. That's how the world works. Not everyone agrees.
But I KNOW you know deep down that this chick is using you and that you've accepted that this kind of crass interactions are part of the price of admission when you walk around with someone who you admit looks she does porn. You think you're winning these little battles when you've already lost the war by letting yourself be a doormat. That's what RbccL was referring to.
When you lie down with dogs, you get fleas. You've just decided that you're ok with fleas as long as the dog licks your belly every once in a while.
I don’t understand. If she’s such a perfect goddesses (Gods gift to mankind) why does she need all this surgery?
Looks like I’m late to the party I was out on a date as well. I had a great time, listened to a band, ordered whatever I felt like eating (mussels and frites) had a shot or 2, and when the tab was presented at the end I took out my cash and paid half. That’s how a guy knows I’m enjoying his company and not just his wallet.
I have to tell ya CB, I would have felt disrespected if my date let some jackass talk about me like that, and then continued to try to ‘one up’ him in my presence. The Call Girl remark too, not a compliment. A lot of women like to get dressed up, but they don’t act like anyone’s paying for their service. It’s like strangers find you and think of ways to challenge you. Not a safe practice, if that’s what happened.
So, I took my girlfriend to New Orleans for her birthday, she had never been and it was one of her "bucket list" items. I've been so many times but I took her there at her request to please her.
First night I was taking her for a night on the town, she was dressed in a very nice summer dress. We hired a lyft and the driver pulled up.
I let her in first and then I got into the car, the driver, a middle aged man in his 50's looked at her then looked at me and said "how in the heck did you wind up with her?" So I said cheekily "I got skills man". He then said "Ha! You either got money or are well hung. Which is it?" I said "Both!". He said "Whatever." I think I won that battle of the banter.
Time for round 2. He said that she needed to take me to Galatoire's, give me 3 sezeracs then ask for my credit card and go to Sacks 5th Ave. He also said that "Honey, if he isn't putting a ring on that finger fast, you better wisen up quickly and dump him. He's an idiot if he hasn't already proposed." She then said "He has a good point there, maybe we can shop for engagement rings tomorrow." He won round 2.
Of course she loves this whole banter because it is furthering her goals but is making me look bad because he persisted. I can't tell you what he said next because of the PG-13 rules of this forum.
Skip to another day. I was at the bar and my gf had to go to the bathroom. When she went a guy said "Man, how much did you pay for that call girl?" I said "she's not a call girl, she's my girlfriend." He said "you lucky sob".
Now I like banter as much as the next guy, but I feel there's limits to this kind of thing. My gf is so attractive that everywhere we go it draws attention. I know that the Big Sleazy is a place where anything goes but it was something that irritated me a bit and looking for some better lines when this happens. I also realize these men were jealous of me but I feel like I always have to be on the defense to guard against these attacks.
Any advice on how to handle these types of comments?
New thread, same story about your dumb Barbie?
Don't you see that everyone is laughing at you? Some voice it, most are doing it behind your back...
What's our O.P.'s query again? As with all of his threads regarding this woman, this one has devolved into a brag about how hot, wonderful, and talented she is and how everyone is so jealous that she's with him, etc.
Only a matter of time before he's back telling us how much he ended up ponying up for her desired surgeries. (This trip is not going to be enough to placate her.)
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I was out on a date as well. I had a great time, listened to a band, ordered whatever I felt like eating (mussels and frites) had a shot or 2, and when the tab was presented at the end I took out my cash and paid half. That’s how a guy knows I’m enjoying his company and not just his wallet. 
