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Old 01-08-2020, 12:26 PM
 
Location: Suburb of Chicago
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And did they go to two different rooms to get the license then get married? They are two different locations within the building.
She never said. I guess it's possible they did this all in one day....but why is she posting she doesn't think they're married?

 
Old 01-08-2020, 12:29 PM
 
Location: Suburb of Chicago
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The witnesses did not sign the application before the ceremony.

https://www.nccourts.gov/help-topics...ldren/marriage
Okay, well, there goes that theory.
 
Old 01-08-2020, 12:30 PM
 
Location: Mr. Roger's Neighborhood
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What I don't understand is why this man would mind **** her in such an elaborate manner.

There are some seriously sick folks out there who get their kicks from messing with the heads of others, but this is beyond bizarre.

If I were Belle, I'd be tempted to reach out to this man's girlfriend on the q.t. (who I can just about guarantee is not "psycho") and compare notes. Check timelines, etc.

The best revenge on a two-timer is when the women in his life go behind his back and join forces to ensure that he's left alone and out in the cold.

Belle, you aren't stupid, but you've repeatedly let this man take advantage of your sweet, trusting, and naive nature and your desire to be loved. To have a family of your own. That was wrong on his part. What was wrong on your part was permitting him to worm his way back into your life after he'd previously shown your time and again what a scummy human being he is capable of being.

Let this be your final wake-up call to block him for good and move on to a better and brighter future that doesn't include allowing yourself to be used by unworthy people be they friends, family, or romantic partners.
 
Old 01-08-2020, 12:33 PM
 
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What was wrong on your part was permitting him to worm his way back into your life after he'd previously shown your time and again what a scummy human being he is capable of being.
You forgot knowingly sleeping with another woman's partner. Infidelity has consequences.
 
Old 01-08-2020, 12:33 PM
 
Location: Middle of nowhere
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Originally Posted by zentropa View Post
The witnesses did not sign the application before the ceremony.

https://www.nccourts.gov/help-topics...ldren/marriage
The witness may not have signed anything. Belle was positive that one of them signed something, but then again she was positive they were legally married. Now she doesn't think they are married at all, so maybe she was incorrect on her friend signing something too. Maybe she was so wrapped up in her dream of getting married and having a family that she was oblivious to all of the things that were taking place around her.
 
Old 01-08-2020, 12:36 PM
 
Location: Mr. Roger's Neighborhood
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You forgot knowingly sleeping with another woman's partner. Infidelity has consequences.
That as well, of course.
 
Old 01-08-2020, 12:37 PM
 
Location: Suburb of Chicago
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And again we find ourselves speculating because she throws little orts our way instead of taking three additional minutes to be more specific.
 
Old 01-08-2020, 12:37 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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You forgot knowingly sleeping with another woman's partner. Infidelity has consequences.


That's infidelity by him (assuming he has a monogamous relationship with the other woman). Not by her.
 
Old 01-08-2020, 12:38 PM
 
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The witness may not have signed anything. Belle was positive that one of them signed something, but then again she was positive they were legally married. Now she doesn't think they are married at all, so maybe she was incorrect on her friend signing something too. Maybe she was so wrapped up in her dream of getting married and having a family that she was oblivious to all of the things that were taking place around her.
So all of the witnesses fell victim to a shared delusion or hallucination? They were there to witness a marriage. One would think at least one person would notice if a ceremony didn't happen.
 
Old 01-08-2020, 12:40 PM
 
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That's infidelity by him (assuming he has a monogamous relationship with the other woman). Not by her.
Interesting. So a woman who knowingly has an affair with a married/partnered man is blameless?
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