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Old 04-26-2010, 12:05 PM
 
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Well first of all I don't date. I'm very shy and introverted and I'm also quite short, and most women want big strong arrogant alpha males and I'm like the complete opposite of that.
One, nice big load of excuses. Two, you know nothing, absolutely nothing about women and Three, why are you making statements as fact about women not taking the initiative if you aren't even dating to know.
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Old 04-26-2010, 12:07 PM
 
Location: Tri-State Area
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One, nice big load of excuses. Two, you know nothing, absolutely nothing about women and Three, why are you making statements as fact about women not taking the initiative if you aren't even dating to know.
He and Betamanlet are one and the same?
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Old 04-26-2010, 12:11 PM
 
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Because they don't have too. Men hate being rejected too, but they generally don't have the luxury of being the passive party so they have to just suck it up and deal with it.
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Old 04-26-2010, 12:13 PM
 
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One, nice big load of excuses. Two, you know nothing, absolutely nothing about women and Three, why are you making statements as fact about women not taking the initiative if you aren't even dating to know.
Excuses? Excuses for what? I was just describing myself... And you go ahead and find a girl who likes shy quiet and short guys.
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Old 04-26-2010, 12:16 PM
 
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Excuses? Excuses for what? I was just describing myself... And you go ahead and find a girl who likes shy quiet and short guys.
I know plenty of them and even fixed them up and married them off. You claim to know what women want and don't want and you see yourself as disadvantaged - they are excuses. But I have to say if you are going to walk around with the 'woe is me I'm disadvantage, no girl will like me' attidue women can smell it a mile away and as I stated in your other thread - personality will eventually trump looks everytime.
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Old 04-26-2010, 12:24 PM
 
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Well first of all I don't date. I'm very shy and introverted and I'm also quite short, and most women want big strong arrogant alpha males and I'm like the complete opposite of that.
Oh great. Another betamanlet.
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Old 04-26-2010, 12:24 PM
 
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Why is it always the man who has to take the initiative? The man is usually the one who has to ask the girl out and initiate every contact when dating. Why don't girls ever ask guy's out? Why don't girls ever initiate contact?
Kinda like 'why don't girls initiate sex'? They do both. You just have to wait until those girls are women...
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Old 04-26-2010, 12:34 PM
 
Location: southwest TN
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Well first of all I don't date. I'm very shy and introverted and I'm also quite short, and most women want big strong arrogant alpha males and I'm like the complete opposite of that.
Oh great - here we go - woe is me and I know it all.

#1 - the opposite of shy, introverted and short is NOT arrogant.
#2 - My wonderful husband is shy and introverted - and he NEVER had trouble getting a date - in fact, I had to beat the other women off with sticks! - still do
#3 - If you don't date, how do you know WOMEN (not girls) don't initiate sex?

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Kinda like 'why don't girls initiate sex'? They do both. You just have to wait until those girls are women...
Bingo!



The BM returns!
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Old 04-26-2010, 12:35 PM
 
Location: New Hampshire
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lol.

I have always taken the first step. Guys like that. But after the first step I let them pursue me.
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Old 04-26-2010, 12:36 PM
 
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Oh great. Another betamanlet.
lol
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