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I took my husband out on a date...at the end of the date I planned on having sex. He was an assh*le on the date, complained, was less than enthusiastic..etc. so he didn't get sex.
So you admit to using sex as a bargaining chip. unless he acts the way you want you wont give it to him.
So you admit to using sex as a bargaining chip. unless he acts the way you want you wont give it to him.
Honestly - is that how you interpret it? Why on earth would someone want to have sex with someone they are mad at??? Sex is not a bargaining chip - but if someone is an a-hole to you, and you aren't in the mood anymore - are you saying you are obligated to have sex with them since you had planned on it before they were an a-hole?
When I get into a fight with my husband - the last thing I want to do is have sex with him. It has nothing to do with bargaining or having the upper hand or having the control.
So you admit to using sex as a bargaining chip. unless he acts the way you want you wont give it to him.
No, it was because he just about made me cry in the restaurant, and I wasn't about to have sex with him after that. It wasn't a bargaining chip...I just wasn't feeling it for him when we got home.
But I guess I should expect to be treated like sh*t and then have sex him sex anyway??? Is that your opinion??
No, it was because he just about made me cry in the restaurant, and I wasn't about to have sex with him after that. It wasn't a bargaining chip...I just wasn't feeling it for him when we got home.
But I guess I should expect to be treated like sh*t and then have sex him sex anyway??? Is that your opinion??
as a man I think our sex drive is our own curse. the things we do for sex are things women would never do, like buy lots of porn or pay for it. Women can make tons of money off of mens horniness but no man can make the same claim. men waste tons of money on sex and have even ruined their careers and marriages over it. Elliot Spitzer being an example. I know of no woman that would risk her neck like that.
Its also a curse if your like me and women just don't find you attractive. All it is a burden to bear because it doesn't do me any good whatsoever. I wish there were drugs on the market that could get rid of my sex drive but I know they will never exist because the male sex drive is a lucrative market.
Women always control the sex and they do all the choosing. Men have no say or control in this matter. Most women are sexually apathetic and they use our own desperation against us. I admit, I envy their ability to control themselves.
Must be why my testosterone is so high and all that bushy body hair grows so much.
Because as a woman, I can tell you women DO NOT want it as much as men
I'm a woman and I want it as much or more than any man I've ever known, excluding adolescent boys. At least half of my female friends all have higher sex drives than their husbands and speak about it regularly.
How can anyone possibly make such a sweeping generalization as "women do NOT want it as much as men." Maybe in your experience. Mine is diametrically opposite. If you're talking about adolescents, then your statement would be generally correct. But men and women who are over 30? Over 40? No freakin' way.
I meant that most wifes wouldn't care if their husband couldn't have sex or didn't want it. More than likely the wife herself doesn't want sex anyway.
Most women would rather do alot of other things than to waste time on sex.
Unbelievable! What planet are some of these comments coming from? No man who would write this has ever intimately known a woman. Or at least a normal women who craves sex and wants it and enjoys it. I feel truly sorry for the men writing these pathetically inaccurate comments.
from reading that and the comments that followed, I don't see that women hate sex as much as women are often tired. especially with children.
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