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It is interesting you have that perspective since many bad boys like some women simply because they are push overs more automatically for them.
And that would definitely explain why I'm marrying a nice guy with a nice coating of macho qualities, and not someone who wants a pushover.
I neither am a pushover, nor would I want to be one. I know a lot of women who fall into the category you described though, an unfortunate number, actually.
yes, they'll drop me like a hot potato once a better girl comes along or they find something they don't want to deal with in the relationship. However, I have no way of knowing any of that until it happens so that's where it gets tricky.
Why is that a problem for women who can easily get laid (hence put their scent on guys for future reference)? It seems more of a problem for men than women.
Why is that a problem for women who can easily get laid (hence put their scent on guys for future reference)? It seems more of a problem for men than women.
well I really have no shortage of men who want to sleep with me, but that's not the only thing I'm looking for.
What about women believing there is more attraction that there is, simply because the guy wasn't getting laid? In my opinion, women are not doing themselves any favors by not factoring for sex with some guys.
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Not sure what you're getting at here. are you saying some women give pity sex? that sounds like horrible sex to me! Sex is way too important to me to settle for horrible sex.
I mean, can any woman be sure about the attraction if she hasn't factored for sex first? Some guys are always attracted to women if they are not getting enough sex regardless of whether they are attracted to the woman for a relationship. Women may confuse the two if they don't factor for sex.
And that would definitely explain why I'm marrying a nice guy with a nice coating of macho qualities, and not someone who wants a pushover.
I neither am a pushover, nor would I want to be one. I know a lot of women who fall into the category you described though, an unfortunate number, actually.
I try not to judge women for being themselves. I feel I simply need better coping skills to have a better attitude, regardless of what women are doing.
What about women believing there is more attraction that there is, simply because the guy wasn't getting laid? In my opinion, women are not doing themselves any favors by not factoring for sex with some guys.
I mean, can any woman be sure about the attraction if she hasn't factored for sex first? Some guys are always attracted to women if they are not getting enough sex regardless of whether they are attracted to the woman for a relationship. Women may confuse the two if they don't factor for sex.
Practice makes perfect.
oookay! I see what you're saying now. There have been a few occasions where I would have maybe given thought to a relationship with the guy but then I didn't enjoy the sex, on numerous occasions, even if I would've tried to let him know what I liked. In those cases, I ended it, especially if their personality wasn't that great either. If I liked being around them, I would have been more patient.
well I really have no shortage of men who want to sleep with me, but that's not the only thing I'm looking for.
What a coincidence, most guys have no shortage of women who are willing to lie to them for a relationship instead of sex; but it is not the only thing we are looking for.
I would rather be lied to for sex than a relationship.
What a coincidence, most guys have no shortage of women who are willing to lie to them for a relationship instead of sex; but it is not the only thing we are looking for.
I would rather be lied to for sex than a relationship.
I totally see what you mean and that's a shame. I've learned to be a lot more direct about my interests in men, so far its been appreciated in the long run.
oookay! I see what you're saying now. There have been a few occasions where I would have maybe given thought to a relationship with the guy but then I didn't enjoy the sex, on numerous occasions, even if I would've tried to let him know what I liked. In those cases, I ended it, especially if their personality wasn't that great either. If I liked being around them, I would have been more patient.
That's all we can really ask of women usually.
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