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Don't expect anything and as much as we like to be admired, being put on a pedestal feels like too much pressure. I'm human and would hate to disappoint a man who puts me on a pedestal once he sees I made some mistake. Beyond that, be yourself, like yourself and don't put pressure on yourself and don't be an ass if you get rejected, you'll prove the girls reason for it, someone out there will say yes, promise!
The pedestal argument doesn't make any sense to me or work for me. In my opinion, guys can never have too many girl friends. Why would a guy want to put a girl friend on a pedestal if he didn't help "create" her and his name isn't Pygmalion?
Besides I have enough trouble making friends with females due to their jealous nature so why would I make it harder on myself?
What do you recommend a guy do to not go out of his way to make women jealous on purpose? Sometimes it can be easy to pick it up from women simply due to the disparity in available sex for them when compared to males; as a less effective form of coping strategy and it sometimes helps, even if it is not how I want to develop my character or my attitude.
ya, I've never played hard to get. If I want someone, they will know! If I'm iffy, I get to know them more before, like you said, before I show any signs of attraction as I'm not in the business of leading someone on because I couldn't make up my mind. thats unfair.
What about women believing there is more attraction than there is, simply because the guy wasn't getting laid? In my opinion, women are not doing themselves any favors by not factoring for sex with some guys.
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What do you recommend a guy do to not go out of his way to make women jealous on purpose? Sometimes it can be easy to pick it up from women simply due to the disparity in available sex for them when compared to males; as a less effective form of coping strategy and it sometimes helps, even if it is not how I want to develop my character or my attitude.
No, I meant when women get jealous of their girlfriends for the guy they are with. ultimately I don't care if other women are jealous of the man I got, I just meant that I don't go out of my way to create that jealousy. Pursue whoever you want, if the woman you wind up dating has jealousy issues, that's a whole different ballgame!
The challenge is, I'm just another ex girlfriend to them. no thanks. if he doesn't value me, then why should I value him long enough to tolerate that fickleness?
From my perspective, an easy bad boy that you have already put your scent on is worth two nice guys in the bush who you haven't put your scent on; for return privileges purposes.
Some nice guys don't have any problems with women bearing true witness about stuff like that; simply for the sake being entitled to the character of a nice guy.
The challenge is, I'm just another ex girlfriend to them. no thanks. if he doesn't value me, then why should I value him long enough to tolerate that fickleness?
Are you claiming the challenge part is that they are willing to be bad boys with all the other girls. You seem to acknowledge that part without trying to actually say so.
Are you claiming the challenge part is that they are willing to be bad boys with all the other girls. You seem to acknowledge that part without trying to actually say so.
yes, they'll drop me like a hot potato once a better girl comes along or they find something they don't want to deal with in the relationship. However, I have no way of knowing any of that until it happens so that's where it gets tricky.
What about women believing there is more attraction that there is, simply because the guy wasn't getting laid? In my opinion, women are not doing themselves any favors by not factoring for sex with some guys.
Not sure what you're getting at here. are you saying some women give pity sex? that sounds like horrible sex to me! Sex is way too important to me to settle for horrible sex.
No, I meant when women get jealous of their girlfriends for the guy they are with. ultimately I don't care if other women are jealous of the man I got, I just meant that I don't go out of my way to create that jealousy. Pursue whoever you want, if the woman you wind up dating has jealousy issues, that's a whole different ballgame!
I prefer women who can get their girl friends involved whenever she can't spend enough quality time with me.
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