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My good gawd almighty, living with someone who harps and harps and harps and harps as you do must be hell on earth. She's no prize, and you know what? You eat it up. You eat her chit up and then you lick the plate clean. If you didn't eat it up, you'd be long gone. You wouldn't be talking about it. You wouldn't be posting here. You wouldn't be wondering about anything. You'd be GONE.
maybe its your Asperbergers that prevents you from seeing the total nonsense you just wrote...you would offer the man that helped your wife cheat a beer..oh wait... was is it laced with arsenic?
you know the funny thing...not once do you actually acknowledge what the wife did was wrong, I don't agree with how he goes about what he does or what he did in the past, but what she did was WRONG. I see nothing wrong with shaming her in public, but using his own FB account, after all he cant be sued for slander when it's true.
Basic reading and comprehension.
The question OP asked was "was I wrong" NOT "was SHE wrong". Clearly you didn't do well at school. I was answering the question asked, which I will again, to you.
My view on her "wrongness" is as follows -
No one needs to judge what goes on inside a marriage. It's NO ONE ELSE'S BUSINESS. Often one partner isn't even really sure what's going on. You go into these things trusting your life to someone and if something happens that changes it, one way or another, you have to deal with it as best you can. For all we know OP might notve gotten it up in a week of sundays, preferring to masturbate and deny his wife intimacy. NO ONE just forgets their vows and goes and cheats unless there is something intrinsically wrong in the relationship. Once you start the blame game, it never stops.
It's not a male/female issue either (women get away with everything, lets punish them). It's an issue of, the marriage has fallen apart, how to end things gracefully and with the least possible ill feeling.
OP is doing everything BUT. Further, what he is doing is illegal, and likely to have unpleasant consequences, which has finally percolated into his brain, which is why he posted here.
Impersonating your spouse, hacking into her fb account (yes it is hacking, he didn't have her permission or even her knowledge) and posting crap pretending to be another person is identify theft.
I don't know what sort of dream land you live in, but where I live all the police need to charge you is "because I said so". The guilt or not is down to the court. You can still be arrested and charged and incarcerated.
Where I live his behaviour would be considered domestic violence. He would face the full attention of LE and the courts as it's just not acceptable. He would at the VERY LEAST be issued with a warning and a restraining order, all she would need to do is ask. At most, they would throw everything they can at him.
well technically he slept with your wife right?
she is still your wife right?
unless of course you have an arrangement now where it doesn't count due to the divorce!
The question OP asked was "was I wrong" NOT "was SHE wrong". Clearly you didn't do well at school. I was answering the question asked, which I will again, to you.
My view on her "wrongness" is as follows -
No one needs to judge what goes on inside a marriage. It's NO ONE ELSE'S BUSINESS. Often one partner isn't even really sure what's going on. You go into these things trusting your life to someone and if something happens that changes it, one way or another, you have to deal with it as best you can. For all we know OP might notve gotten it up in a week of sundays, preferring to masturbate and deny his wife intimacy. NO ONE just forgets their vows and goes and cheats unless there is something intrinsically wrong in the relationship. Once you start the blame game, it never stops.
It's not a male/female issue either (women get away with everything, lets punish them). It's an issue of, the marriage has fallen apart, how to end things gracefully and with the least possible ill feeling.
OP is doing everything BUT. Further, what he is doing is illegal, and likely to have unpleasant consequences, which has finally percolated into his brain, which is why he posted here.
Impersonating your spouse, hacking into her fb account (yes it is hacking, he didn't have her permission or even her knowledge) and posting crap pretending to be another person is identify theft.
I don't know what sort of dream land you live in, but where I live all the police need to charge you is "because I said so". The guilt or not is down to the court. You can still be arrested and charged and incarcerated.
Where I live his behaviour would be considered domestic violence. He would face the full attention of LE and the courts as it's just not acceptable. He would at the VERY LEAST be issued with a warning and a restraining order, all she would need to do is ask. At most, they would throw everything they can at him.
Ok, thanks for posting.
Please see previous post with time line for clarification.
The question OP asked was "was I wrong" NOT "was SHE wrong". Clearly you didn't do well at school. I was answering the question asked, which I will again, to you.
My view on her "wrongness" is as follows -
No one needs to judge what goes on inside a marriage. It's NO ONE ELSE'S BUSINESS. Often one partner isn't even really sure what's going on. You go into these things trusting your life to someone and if something happens that changes it, one way or another, you have to deal with it as best you can. For all we know OP might notve gotten it up in a week of sundays, preferring to masturbate and deny his wife intimacy. NO ONE just forgets their vows and goes and cheats unless there is something intrinsically wrong in the relationship. Once you start the blame game, it never stops.
It's not a male/female issue either (women get away with everything, lets punish them). It's an issue of, the marriage has fallen apart, how to end things gracefully and with the least possible ill feeling.
OP is doing everything BUT. Further, what he is doing is illegal, and likely to have unpleasant consequences, which has finally percolated into his brain, which is why he posted here.
Impersonating your spouse, hacking into her fb account (yes it is hacking, he didn't have her permission or even her knowledge) and posting crap pretending to be another person is identify theft.
I don't know what sort of dream land you live in, but where I live all the police need to charge you is "because I said so". The guilt or not is down to the court. You can still be arrested and charged and incarcerated.
Where I live his behaviour would be considered domestic violence. He would face the full attention of LE and the courts as it's just not acceptable. He would at the VERY LEAST be issued with a warning and a restraining order, all she would need to do is ask. At most, they would throw everything they can at him.
actually I was referring to almost ALL of your posts on this matter and in other threads..we get it you are anti-man..you wear it like a glove..
well technically he slept with your wife right?
she is still your wife right?
unless of course you have an arrangement now where it doesn't count due to the divorce!
Still married - yes.
We took our rings off, decided on a plan to end things with least amount of damage to either of us, and are working towards it.
On our profiles, we each have that we're still married but getting a divorce, and live with each other as roommates for the time being.
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Clearly you didn't do well at school. I was answering the question asked, which I will again, to you.
