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Well is that a reason married women would say no? Because the man is not pleasing her in the bedroom? So would prefer to do nothing in that case?
Note: Keep in mind some women may not have had much experience before marriage. Or no experience with the man they marry. And may have been told "it hurts at first", so if limited experience with the man they marry prior to marriage, maybe they were thinking things would get better later on? (But it never gets better due to some problem.)
For a lot of women sex is mental as much as physical. If she's feeling stressed, or tired, or taken advantage of, or the timing isn't right, then she's not going to want to be up for it. When both people work and there are kids in the picture, both partners need to make each other a priority, but at the same time realize that compromise is necessary. Sex every day may not be on the table the way it was when they were newlyweds.
I'm not married, but i was reading an article about this topic, about married men who don't get enough sex from their wives. This is making me very reluctant to ever get married.
Does this happen for biology reasons? Do men always want sex more than women?
Or does this happen because the man doesn't do a good enough job making the woman feel special? Do married men just get lazy and stop doing the romantic things they did to win over the woman in the first place?
For many marry guys, they simply got caught up with a woman who gave them lots of sex in order to coax them into marriage; so once the woman got married, the sex was reduced to infrequent intervals.
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Originally Posted by lpfan921
Do men always want sex more than women?
Generally speaking, yes. The reason why is because sex is not easily or readily available to men like it is for women.
For a lot of women sex is mental as much as physical. If she's feeling stressed, or tired, or taken advantage of, or the timing isn't right, then she's not going to want to be up for it. .
With all due respect, female sex workers often work under the same conditions (if not worse) but yet they still have sex with their customers; so why can't a wife have sex with her supporting HUSBAND even though she's tired?
With all due respect, female sex workers often work under the same conditions (if not worse) but yet they still have sex with their customers; so why can't a wife have sex with her supporting HUSBAND even though she's tired?
To be fair, sex workers have sex for money. They tend to not be aroused or get any physical pleasure from the act. So in that sense, sure, a wife can go through the motions for her husband's benefit. But in a good and loving marriage, shouldn't the husband want to ensure that his wife is doing more than going through the motions?
I'm not married, but i was reading an article about this topic, about married men who don't get enough sex from their wives. This is making me very reluctant to ever get married.
Does this happen for biology reasons? Do men always want sex more than women?
Or does this happen because the man doesn't do a good enough job making the woman feel special? Do married men just get lazy and stop doing the romantic things they did to win over the woman in the first place?
Women's genetic imperative to reproduce is satisfied once they have a child. This is not the case with men. Once a woman has a child she is no longer interested in sex with THAT PARTNER and will seek out another if her cultural identity does not overshadow her biological imprint.
Biologically we were not intended to be monogamous. This is a cultural aberration that we have accepted as normal thanks to pressure by "civilization" and the church.
Generally speaking, yes. The reason why is because sex is not easily or readily available to men like it is for women.
This, of course, is ridiculous. It's simply about mismatched sex drives. Some women have a higher drive than their man. Some women don't have a strong drive, or their guy doesn't bother to give her what she needs. Or she doesn't tell him what she needs, or she doesn't know, herself, because she hasn't explored her own sexuality in private.
This, of course, is ridiculous. It's simply about mismatched sex drives. Some women have a higher drive than their man. Some women don't have a strong drive, or their guy doesn't bother to give her what she needs. Or she doesn't tell him what she needs, or she doesn't know, herself, because she hasn't explored her own sexuality in private.
If I recall, the "poster child" for the woman on this planet who had a higher sex drive than her husband was Mrs. Roper on "Three's Company."
just like JJ said they expect women to be sex machines, they put their coins in whenever they want and sex is supposed to fall out upon command. I don't believe they have any respect for women controlling their own bodies, especially after marriage.
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