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Old 09-10-2012, 12:52 PM
 
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Yep, if only thats the way things played out.
Married women won’t find out if it plays out like that if they continue to reject sex over and over unless they, as men are told, picked the wrong person to be with.

 
Old 09-10-2012, 12:52 PM
 
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Wouldn’t it make sense to have sex when your day has been busy and tiring? That is. Go home, fill the tub, turn on some candles, and enjoy some intimacy and simply relax after it? Doesn’t orgasms relax the body and release endorphins that help reduce headaches and cramps?
Oh yeah, great idea. Right after I take the dog out, scrounge up dinner, feed the pets, put away the load of laundry I did last night, and respond to the voicemail from the committee chair asking me to volunteer.

What dream world do you live in that you think a working wife has time to sit in a tub after she gets home??

I'm amazed at some of the comments in the thread. It's like some of you think we women just sit around thinking up vindictive ways to punish men. Jeez.
 
Old 09-10-2012, 12:53 PM
 
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Wonder how much men would want to have sex if they only had an orgasm (lets be generous) 60% of the time?
 
Old 09-10-2012, 12:57 PM
 
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Wonder how much men would want to have sex if they only had an orgasm (lets be generous) 60% of the time?
Do you consider sex to be purely penetrative? When I bring my wife to an orgasm or multiple orgasms using oral, digital or with a toy and I do not ejaculate or 'orgasm' myself does that count?
 
Old 09-10-2012, 12:59 PM
 
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Do you consider sex to be purely penetrative? When I bring my wife to an orgasm or multiple orgasms using oral, digital or with a toy and I do not ejaculate or 'orgasm' myself does that count?
It counts. Does it stop there? She gets her's then you go to bed?
 
Old 09-10-2012, 01:00 PM
 
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Wonder how much men would want to have sex if they only had an orgasm (lets be generous) 60% of the time?
You're on the right track with this, but it's more like: how often would men want sex if it was all about giving the woman what she wants (orally, manually and/or w/toy, as Baldrick said), then as soon as she has her orgasm (or two), she rolls over and falls asleep?
 
Old 09-10-2012, 01:00 PM
 
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Oh yeah, great idea. Right after I take the dog out, scrounge up dinner, feed the pets, put away the load of laundry I did last night, and respond to the voicemail from the committee chair asking me to volunteer.
Let’s see here. Do you do laundry every single night? How long does it take to feed a pet? Really, come on. Like I said, at home I saw house chores divided among the family and I don’t remember hearing complains. Heck, seeing my parents go out on dates was not unusual or going out to the gym after we all got home after school and work.

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What dream world do you live in that you think a working wife has time to sit in a tub after she gets home?
What kind of world do you live in where feeding a dog takes hours, people do laundry every single night, etc.?

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Wonder how much men would want to have sex if they only had an orgasm (lets be generous) 60% of the time?
I wonder how many women would be willing to do it just like they did before they got married instead of simply putting out. Hey, I do agree with what you say. There are men who are at fault for not taking the time to make sure their wife is satisfied as much as there are married women who simply do not get into it like they did before they bit the wedding cake.
 
Old 09-10-2012, 01:00 PM
 
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Hmmm... really? I mean... a man gets tired after 3-5 rounds everyday...



Because I can't get enough of it. And I would never say no if I'm only dead tired.

5 times a day? Must being living off of lotto money or something because with a full time job doing 40 to 60 a week or more it ain't happening 5 times a day probably none at all sometimes.
 
Old 09-10-2012, 01:00 PM
 
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It counts. Does it stop there? She gets her's then you go to bed?
Why would we then go to bed, why wouldn't we then do it again later?
 
Old 09-10-2012, 01:01 PM
 
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Do you consider sex to be purely penetrative? When I bring my wife to an orgasm or multiple orgasms using oral, digital or with a toy and I do not ejaculate or 'orgasm' myself does that count?
I'm assuming for the purposes of this thread that the hypothetical married men who complain that they aren't getting enough sex probably wouldn't be counting the sex that they aren't benefiting (i.e. orgasm) directly from.
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