Married men who don't get enough sex (cheated, child, spouse)
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Married women won’t find out if it plays out like that if they continue to reject sex over and over unless they, as men are told, picked the wrong person to be with.
I highly doubt in this case a person needs to stop rejecting something to see if it'll turn out differently since if every or most previous sex was unsatisficatory I doubt it'll suddenly change.
I'm assuming for the purposes of this thread that the hypothetical married men who complain that they aren't getting enough sex probably wouldn't be counting the sex that they aren't benefiting (i.e. orgasm) directly from.
Your right, modern women use sex as a tool for stability and once married find out their not attracted to each other. The media promotes this behavior and women take advantage of it.
What media are you tuned into?
Are men such easy suckers? Don't they take the time and effort to really scope out their partner during the courtship phase, to make sure she's honest, straightforward, non-manipulative?
Wonder how much men would want to have sex if they only had an orgasm (lets be generous) 60% of the time?
I highly doubt most men would want sex if there was little more than a 50/50 chance they'd orgasm.
Especially when it seems most men wouldn't even not having a particular sex action aka blowjobs. So if many men wouldn't desire not getting a sexual act I doubt many would desire sex when there's a 60% of orgasm.
I highly doubt in this case a person needs to stop rejecting something to see if it'll turn out differently since if every or most previous sex was unsatisficatory I doubt it'll suddenly change.
That could be but then again why is it that she didn’t reject her man before they got married and had sex often. All of a sudden, no more sex for the man once they got married. Didn’t she enjoy sex before?
Let’s see here. Do you do laundry every single night? How long does it take to feed a pet? Really, come on. Like I said, at home I saw house chores divided among the family and I don’t remember hearing complains. Heck, seeing my parents go out on dates was not unusual or going out to the gym after we all got home after school and work.
I wonder if your parents would view the same example through such rose colored glasses. You don't have a family (neither do I, but speaking with friends and family about it, it's not for wimps.)
Here's an excerpt from a blog entry that a friend of mine wrote describing her schedule:
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Morning--6:45am. I'll need 10 minutes from [Kid 1's] school to get to work. 6:35. I can drop [Kid 2] off at 6:30 at the earliest. I can drop [Kid 3] and [Baby] off a little early. So I'll need all kids dressed, coated & shoed, and buckled in the car by 6:15am. Which means I need to be in the shower at 4:50am.
I'll need an extra 10 minutes to make breakfasts/ get warmed milks (my children are only spoiled in certain ways and that's one). So that puts me at 4:40. I also will need to drink some coffee, load the van with backpacks, diaper bags, lunch boxes, breast pumps, coolers (4:30) and I'll leave myself an extra 10 minutes for unforseeables. 4:20. Or, maybe only 5 extra minutes for unforseeables. 4:25am. That's when I need to be up and moving.
After Work: One of us is always heading to pick up children by 4pm. The littles are fetched from the babysitter by 4:15; [Kid 2] from preschool at 4:30; [Kid 1] from after-school care at 4:45. We are home by 5pm. We eat dinner, sometimes take baths, read books, do dishes/ laundry/ etc., and play games.
I put [Kid 3] to bed between 7- 7:30pm, depending on how much she is yelling at us (lately, I'm bolting up the stairs with her at 7:00 sharp). [Husband] puts the big boys down between 7:30- 8pm. I typically nurse [Baby] for an entire hour between 8-9pm, which is [Husband]'s & my precious, brain-numbing hour of television & internet. I put [Baby] down and head to bed by 9:30 at the latest.
Obviously they've found the time since they have four kids, but I guarantee they're not getting busy every night.
What media are you tuned into?
Are men such easy suckers? Don't they take the time and effort to really scope out their partner during the courtship phase, to make sure she's honest, straightforward, non-manipulative?
Are there women who are straight-forward and non-manipulative at all?
I met women who claimed to be honest, straightforward and non-manipulative but never actually met one that really was.
Then you're a good man and exempt from my previous comment.
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