What can I do to stop gay men from hitting me on all the time? (date, woman)
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Why in the world should he be flattered if he is not gay???
Some of these people don't seem to understand that. Some of these people are so desperate for attention I guess they think getting hit on by a gay person is better than nothing.
Some of these people don't seem to understand that. Some of these people are so desperate for attention I guess they think getting hit on by a gay person is better than nothing.
If a gay disrespected me in public and felt it was ok to compliment that would not a pretty situation.
Some of these people don't seem to understand that. Some of these people are so desperate for attention I guess they think getting hit on by a gay person is better than nothing.
Being hit on by a gay man is better than nothing, because at least it means that someone felt you were attractive enough to hit on you. It may not help you any in that it can't possibly lead to a date, but at least it's flattering. I honestly can't comprehend seeing this as an insult instead of a compliment.
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Originally Posted by WestPhillyDude75
No it means he is bi-curious if he is flattered.
Not even remotely. Some of us can accept a compliment without becoming hilariously uncomfortable.
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Originally Posted by WestPhillyDude75
If a gay disrespected me in public and felt it was ok to compliment that would not a pretty situation.
So a guy is disrespecting you by complimenting you? Your brain continues to baffle me.
Being hit on by a gay man is better than nothing, because at least it means that someone felt you were attractive enough to hit on you. It may not help you any in that it can't possibly lead to a date, but at least it's flattering. I honestly can't comprehend seeing this as an insult instead of a compliment.
Not even remotely. Some of us can accept a compliment without becoming hilariously uncomfortable.
So a guy is disrespecting you by complimenting you? Your brain continues to baffle me.
Yes because a gay man complimenting a straight man in public is not normal behavior
Homophobic guys don't give a damn if they're attractive to gays.
FTFY.
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Originally Posted by 14Bricks
That's no compliment to me, it's an insult, because I'm a pathetic immature loser who is threatened by other people's sexual orientation.
And again.
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Originally Posted by JetJockey
Actually, that would be a HUUUUGE compliment. The gay guys I know have ridiciulously high standards when it comes to looks in other dudes.
Exactly.
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Originally Posted by WestPhillyDude75
No it means he is bi-curious if he is flattered. No homophobic man should be flattered from getting hit on from gay men.
FTFY, too.
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Originally Posted by WestPhillyDude75
If a gay disrespected me in public and felt it was ok to compliment that would not a pretty situation, because I'm a giant pathetic motherf*cking homophobe
And again, just to be safe.
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Originally Posted by Lamplight
Not even remotely. Some of us can accept a compliment without becoming hilariously uncomfortable.
So a guy is disrespecting you by complimenting you? Your brain continues to baffle me.
Exactly.
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Originally Posted by Chowhound
Typical machismo bull**** is why some guys get all weird about it....... I'm not gay, but it's certainly not the end of the world if some gay dude hit on me.... I wouldn't get all bent about it, just explain to my musicals appreciating friend that I didn't swing that way....
No it means he is bi-curious if he is flattered. No straight man should be flattered from getting hit on from gay men.
I call BS on this. I'm a gay dude and if a girl hit on me or complimented me I would be flattered but decline of course. What's the difference vice versa?
I call BS on this. I'm a gay dude and if a girl hit on me or complimented me I would be flattered but decline of course. What's the difference vice versa?
There's no difference, unless you're a homophobe. ChiNaan nailed it.
You can take your P.C. Crap somewhere else, because I really don't give a damn. Calling somebody a homophobe may work on sheep that doesn't work on me.
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.... I'm not gay, but it's certainly not the end of the world if some gay dude hit on me.... I wouldn't get all bent about it, just explain to my musicals appreciating friend that I didn't swing that way....
