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Old 06-01-2013, 07:39 AM
 
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That's complete baloney - so your able to read the mind if every good looking woman on this planet? No attractive woman has ever gone out with a non celebrity short guy?

As I said above I made out with a 10 + model (sorry, SHE made out with me), and my friend who's only a couple inches taller than me used to mix his girls up because he was having that much sex in Uni. I agree my height puts me at a disadvantage but to talk in absolutes is absurd. Besides - I'm not necessarily looking for an "attractive" woman.
Then why would you make a thread like this asking people their opinions? If you aren't looking for attractive women you have no issues at all. Go after the numerous single moms or fat chicks that are single, I am sure they would find you quite a catch.
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Old 06-01-2013, 07:51 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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there's "fun size"women (under 5') just have to look.
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Old 06-01-2013, 09:16 AM
 
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Then why would you make a thread like this asking people their opinions? If you aren't looking for attractive women you have no issues at all. Go after the numerous single moms or fat chicks that are single, I am sure they would find you quite a catch.
Because not all of this it to do with my height (seriously - why are folk so obsessed about height in this post?). I'm looking for a decent woman, physical attractiveness is just material.
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Old 06-01-2013, 09:26 AM
 
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Because not all of this it to do with my height (seriously - why are folk so obsessed about height in this post?). I'm looking for a decent woman, physical attractiveness is just material.
You can find a decent woman, but you have to have the right frame of mind about it. That is all.
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Old 06-01-2013, 09:36 AM
 
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it's your height. please don't believe the crap some ppl will say to you on here ("it's your personality, you need to be more outgoing" or "you haven't been seeing the right kind of girls, you need to find someone with a heart of gold" or some such crap).

you have 3 options here - a) try and hit on as many chics as possible and put up with even more rejection in the hopes of getting lucky eventually, b) give up and seek happiness elsewhere, c) get leg lengthening surgery (very expensive).
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Old 06-01-2013, 10:31 AM
 
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Because not all of this it to do with my height (seriously - why are folk so obsessed about height in this post?). I'm looking for a decent woman, physical attractiveness is just material.
Because your height is what women notice in the first place and that's the number 1 rule of attraction, be tall. Since you aren't all that, you have to settle for someone who's unattractive and possibly with a lot of emotional baggage. Sorry but these are the rules of dating in this part of the world.
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Old 06-01-2013, 03:12 PM
 
Location: Milwaukee
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A friend of mine I spoke to today also suggested 3 things today: I can't be that bad if bar 3 all the other women I've kissed have iniated it. His point being its very uncommon for woman to make a move on a guy! One of them was an amateur model, never mind a 10 she's a 15! Still never figured that one out.....His 2nd point was we're in a social circle of 15 guys 12 of whom have all been with someone for at least 3 years + if any of them split from their other they too would find it difficult given our age also. His final point was none of the woman in our social circle have ever commented on me bering ugly and barely mention my height; they all think I'm an ace guy (although ironically would probably never date me) - maybe a lot of this stuff is all in my head thats holding me back.
I would try to recall that incident when you start to get down or feel hopeless. And it can't hurt to recall it periodically when you're not feeling hopeless.

If I were you I would think to myself that I'm as good any and better than most. Think that you are as deserving of the most attractive woman on earth.

If you can come to think you rate an attractive and wonderful woman, then I would start asking yourself if you can find attractiveness and goodness in women that aren't normally placed in the "10" category or "6" category or maybe even the "3" or "4" categories.

When it comes to the different character traits, you might want to ask yourself if you're placing importance on one or more character traits that really aren't all that important? And decide what it is in character traits you can deal with in a woman and ones for certain you can't.

Does she have to be American? Does she have to be a certain color? Can you court, date, and fall in love with a 19 year old woman? What about a woman ten years older than you?
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Old 06-01-2013, 05:29 PM
 
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Well If anything else had 31 years of failure we would say its time to give up so what makes this different
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Old 06-01-2013, 05:39 PM
 
Location: Milwaukee
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Well If anything else had 31 years of failure we would say its time to give up so what makes this different
LOL. True. You have a point.
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Old 06-01-2013, 10:26 PM
 
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5'4 is too short. Sorry.
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