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Old 10-26-2013, 12:06 AM
 
Location: Bronx
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Originally Posted by brad4143 View Post
Yepper, I have seen these 20 something's dating only good lookin bad boys who treat them like crap impregnate them and move on. Some women wont learn until they are past 30's after having 3 kids with 3 different fathers, Then they are still single after 40 looks gone weight is way up, and wonder why they cant get a GL good guy for long term relationship or marriage. Funny
Mod cut: leave race out the discussionIn these environs these women reside, stable men are a rarity and women get accustomed ti these good looking bad boy types. Good looks does not necessarily mean a woman will have a genetically healthy baby with a hot guy, plenty of unhealthy traits like heart, sickle cell, diabetes can be passed on. Those types of women are nothing new and try ti make a relationship formed out of lust work. Women become so secure that they assume men will be with them forever. Lol not especially when finances go up but also a womans looks also gone through the roof especially if she already unattractive or overweight! Im surprised some of these single mom, out of shape women or even unattractive can sometimes pull men but again many will not marry because these women carry baggage, hell I see it everyday.

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That why as a guy you get the last LOL when she 40+ and still has not found anyone and has 13 cats and smells like cat ****.
Sounds like a typical yuppie careerist types woman who will not settle for less and rather be single and lonely and not date below her league. Her closest companion will be a boutique dog or cat.

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because women are full of ****
they'll happily **** a guy who is dumber than rocks and has the personality of a doorknob if the guy is hot and has a 6 pack but they want to complain men are shallow for saying attraction is important.
This is very common in the BX and rest of NYC, but also in certain parts of America too Bxlefty. Women are shallow due to the fact that child bering and kids get involved. Hot guys are not shallow until he is ready to exit out of a relationship with an average looking women who has become unattractive or a chubby woman who has become morbidly obese. Cant blame them. Dumb guys are narrow minded and only have one directed confidence but with no ambitions or goals cimpared to beta male nice guy. A lot of these women just want happiness and a thrill. If I can't provide that to her, its best to move on and avoid a bullet that can cause more damage than harm.

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Old 10-26-2013, 12:17 AM
 
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btw i have no problem with women wanting to have sex with attractive guys, just don't complain when men do the same.
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Old 10-26-2013, 12:44 AM
 
Location: Bronx
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btw i have no problem with women wanting to have sex with attractive guys, just don't complain when men do the same.
I agree.
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Old 10-26-2013, 01:19 AM
 
Location: Europe
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I am fine with all having standards. Just don't complain there is no enough women in your quality level to fullfill your needs. Because you are the problem to yourself then and not women. Same goes to women. But we whine till we found that special one who is only in the world who is as high level as we are and we accept that person to be qualited enough to be okay to our hignnesses.

You either take what you are able to get or then you live without, your choice. If you created standards don't cry if you are not level of them and able to get them. Then be without, that is the deal with partners.

We can want what ever we want but we can only get the one who wants us back = Quality match
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Old 10-26-2013, 10:49 AM
 
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BECAUSE, a lot of women insist that men aren't allowed to have standards that are unatainable to the average woman meanwhile ladies can crap all over guys with whatever twisted preferences, standards and excuses to reject a guy. Women want a free pass to exercise their superficialities meanwhile guys are shallow, ignorant and prejudiced when we have ours.

Most of the time men's discrepancies center around her weight and the fact that a woman can do something to lose those few extra pounds. Nothing more really.

We all know that women discard men who aren't tall enough, aren't handsome enough, don't make enough cashflow or it could be that his friends don't have the good looks to boost her own feminity as well as her girlfriends.
It is funny how some women say that they want to be loved for who they are an not just what they look like yet arent willing to do the same for men
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Old 10-26-2013, 10:56 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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It is funny how some women say that they want to be loved for who they are an not just what they look like yet arent willing to do the same for men
Who cares? There are fat guys who want skinny women and uneducated women that want successful men and on and on and on... It only makes things harder for themselves.
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Old 10-26-2013, 11:00 AM
 
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Who cares? There are fat guys who want skinny women and uneducated women that want successful men and on and on and on... It only makes things harder for themselves.
Yes, many people want the opposite of themselves. They want what they're not. That only works out if the person they're looking for isn't looking for the same in return.
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Old 10-26-2013, 11:12 AM
 
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Who cares????

Men have all types of standards, especially DOUBLE standards....Women have to look like this, and eat like that, smile like this only weigh thath....

Who cares everyone has standards let them have em
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Old 10-26-2013, 12:11 PM
 
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Based on my experiences, I would say "few" women. I would also say that "few" men are bad eggs as well. But, please, keep telling us how not bitter you are. We believe you. Really.
Wow, you speak for the forum now. You the WE?
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Old 10-26-2013, 12:38 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Wow, you speak for the forum now. You the WE?
Yup.
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