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Old 10-28-2013, 11:34 PM
 
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Never been lucky with the ladies no matter how/what I tried. I don't put much faith into it or my self worth. My balls are twice the size of guys who regularly get laid. I'll bet my crummy paycheck on it. Women have extremely high standards these days. They'll take notes for 4 years and you better add up to it.
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Old 10-28-2013, 11:41 PM
 
Location: mainland but born oahu
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Never been lucky with the ladies no matter how/what I tried. I don't put much faith into it or my self worth. My balls are twice the size of guys who regularly get laid. I'll bet my crummy paycheck on it. Women have extremely high standards these days. They'll take notes for 4 years and you better add up to it.
How old are you bruddah?
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Old 10-29-2013, 07:50 AM
 
Location: Charlotte, NC
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Are you kidding? Like men dont have unrealistically high expectations of women.
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Old 10-29-2013, 10:15 AM
 
Location: Broward County Florida
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It's because women pretend that their standards are about "deep" things, such as personality, whereas men's standards are about looks. Of course, that's a complete lie because most of what women present to the world is intended to make them look good. That's why, for example, you get conflicting responses about the "is size important?" question. In public, all women will say "no, absolutely not." Then you put them in a room with only women and it's like "hell, yeah, girl! HA HA HA!" Women are generally like that.
Absolutely yes. Women talking to other women sound totally different than when talking to mixed audience.
A lot of so called "female perspective" it's an utter bs made for men so that women would look "deeper" "more sensitive" etc. Sure ;
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Old 10-29-2013, 10:31 AM
 
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How old are you bruddah?
Old enough to know better, too young to say no! lol OVER 35...alright. lol
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Old 10-29-2013, 10:43 AM
 
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Struggling women and mens plights are different,even the women on here who complain about how shallow men are and how men ignore them have admitted to being relationships and every few months talk about a new guy therye seeing..

The struggling mans plight is never even getting a first date never mind a relationship.. i havent seen many women on here whove said they cant ever get dates.when youve gone your whole life without ever attracting a women and feeling effection from a women it can eat at you and you may say things you dont mean and seem bitter.

I guarantee if some of us "whining" guys had at least some exprience in attracting the oppsite sex like the struggling women on here have done do wed feel a little less hopelss and bitter about the whole situation..
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Old 10-29-2013, 10:46 AM
 
Location: Metro Detroit
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Struggling women and mens plights are different,even the women on here who complain about how shallow men are and how men ignore them have admitted to being relationships and every few months talk about a new guy therye seeing..

The struggling mans plight is never even getting a first date never mind a relationship.. i havent seen many women on here whove said they cant ever get dates.when youve gone your whole life without ever attracting a women and feeling effection from a women it can eat at you and you may say things you dont mean and seem bitter.

I guarantee if some of us "whining" guys had at least some exprience in attracting the oppsite sex like the struggling women on here have done do wed feel a little less hopelss and bitter about the whole situation..
Women have a great ability to not see it from someone else's point of view. They have no idea what it must be like for a guy who has maybe had one or two *dates*, not relationships, in his life. I don't have any issues attracting women, but I always chuckle when the women on here chirp about the guys whining and that there are so many more men whining. Yeah. Because they can't possibly fathom NEVER getting a date.
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Old 10-29-2013, 10:52 AM
 
Location: Canada
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Women have a great ability to not see it from someone else's point of view. They have no idea what it must be like for a guy who has maybe had one or two *dates*, not relationships, in his life. I don't have any issues attracting women, but I always chuckle when the women on here chirp about the guys whining and that there are so many more men whining. Yeah. Because they can't possibly fathom NEVER getting a date.
But what does whining accomplish? It doesn't change the fact that they can't get dates, and the more whining a person does, the more easily they can become stuck in that negative mindset. IRL, there is only so much whining I'm willing to listen to from a person before enough is enough and they either need to do something different or ****.
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Old 10-29-2013, 11:00 AM
 
Location: Metro Detroit
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But what does whining accomplish? It doesn't change the fact that they can't get dates, and the more whining a person does, the more easily they can become stuck in that negative mindset. IRL, there is only so much whining I'm willing to listen to from a person before enough is enough and they either need to do something different or ****.
They are annoying. They are never ending. But just as annoying is listening to women talk about a subject they can't possibly fathom the reality of.
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Old 10-29-2013, 11:01 AM
 
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I give up... everything I try to post formats funny. I lose paragraphs, etc. Guess I just get to read today. I just wanted to say, I think men and women process emotion differently and that's part of the reason you see so many men fixated on one emotion. In this case, sadness or anger. Women, I think, multitask emotions and don't let one overwhelm them. We all still feel them, but process and show them differently. But that's all just my opinion.
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