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You come off as completely controlling and immature. If you are secure in your relationship, then you have no need to harbor on or try to control your SO by dictating who she can/can't see/talk to/spend time with. A sign of maturity is that you allow your girlfriend to make her own personal decisions about with whom she communicates. A sign of maturity is that you don't try to dictate her decisions, irrespective of how you feel.
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It's not about caring if a girl cheats on you, my philosophy is give the girl all the rope she needs to hang herself. That's not my concern, I just don't want to put myself in such a stupid situation that is just bound to be screwed. Why should I invest when the risk is unacceptable?
It's not about caring if a girl cheats on you, my philosophy is give the girl all the rope she needs to hang herself. That's not my concern, I just don't want to put myself in such a stupid situation that is just bound to be screwed. Why should I invest when the risk is unacceptable?
It's not about caring if a girl cheats on you, my philosophy is give the girl all the rope she needs to hang herself. That's not my concern, I just don't want to put myself in such a stupid situation that is just bound to be screwed. Why should I invest when the risk is unacceptable?
3 times since you are having trouble grasping this concept. Did I tell my ex to stop talking to her ex's or did I just leave the relationship? How did I dictate anything? I simply left the relationship once I realized it was something that I did NOT want.
One more time since I sense you won't be able to grasp it.
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It's not about caring if a girl cheats on you, my philosophy is give the girl all the rope she needs to hang herself. That's not my concern, I just don't want to put myself in such a stupid situation that is just bound to be screwed. Why should I invest when the risk is unacceptable?
Why? My ex and I shared a childhood together. He was married now divorced. He isn't bf material because he is obsessed with hanging with friends and doing science and outdoor traveling. But he is a fun person.
Why? My ex and I shared a childhood together. He was married now divorced. He isn't bf material because he is obsessed with hanging with friends and doing science and outdoor traveling. But he is a fun person.
Yeah, but no one here is talking about an ex you have a child with or an ex husband. That is very different than some ex-boyfriend from the past. Different levels of commitment and different circumstances completely.
I don't think I know anyone that would have a problem with that although I am sure some might be annoyed.
3 times since you are having trouble grasping this concept. Did I tell my ex to stop talking to her ex's or did I just leave the relationship? How did I dictate anything? I simply left the relationship once I realized it was something that I did NOT want.
One more time since I sense you won't be able to grasp it.
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I grasp a lot, but thank you for the clarification, nevertheless.
lmbo! You have issues...deep seated issues. And posting them on an online forum only helps to reveal how much of an insecure, little boy you truly are. Happy trails in what will continue to be a plethora of never-ending, unsuccessful dating relationships.
Btw, you may insult me if you'd like (I honestly don't care) but know that I won't be engaging in any useless banter with you, as I have neither the time nor the inclination. You started a silly thread and don't like the responses you've received. So the issue clearly is with you. I honestly don't wish you any luck, but I have a feeling, nevertheless, you'll continue to be miserable/unhappy (you pick the correct adjective).
Yeah, but no one here is talking about an ex you have a child with or an ex husband. That is very different than some ex-boyfriend from the past. Different levels of commitment and different circumstances completely.
I don't think I know anyone that would have a problem with that although I am sure some might be annoyed.
Haha, he isn't my son's father. My son's father is married.
I grasp a lot, but thank you for the clarification, nevertheless.
lmbo! You have issues...deep seated issues. And posting them on an online forum only helps to reveal how much of an insecure, little boy you truly are. Happy trails in what will continue to be a plethora of never-ending, unsuccessful dating relationships.
You cannot say "give her the rope and let her hang herself", give that a bold mark and then forget your next sentence which says "I don't want to put myself in a situation that is bound to get screwed".
It's contradictory and you still sound controlling and immature, even if you did give one line about her "hanging herself".
I grasp a lot, but thank you for the clarification, nevertheless.
lmbo! You have issues...deep seated issues. And posting them on an online forum only helps to reveal how much of an insecure, little boy you truly are. Happy trails in what will continue to be a plethora of never-ending, unsuccessful dating relationships.
Btw, you may insult me if you'd like (I honestly don't care) but know that I won't be engaging in any useless banter with you, as I have neither the time nor the inclination. You started a silly thread and don't like the responses you've received. So the issue clearly is with you. I honestly don't wish you any luck, but I have a feeling, nevertheless, you'll continue to be miserable/unhappy (you pick the correct adjective).
And I am the one that is immature?
Do you really think I care?
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You cannot say "give her the rope and let her hang herself", give that a bold mark and then forget your next sentence which says "I don't want to put myself in a situation that is bound to get screwed".
It's contradictory and you still sound controlling and immature, even if you did give one line about her "hanging herself".
How is that controlling?
I DID NOT TELL HER TO STOP TALKING TO HER EX I SIMPLY BROKE IT OFF WITH HER. I DID NOT EVEN DELIVER AND ULTIMATUM(they don't work anyway).
Some of you guys on CD I have noticed have trouble reading and keep parroting off the same thing even though sufficient detail has been provided to counter your ASSUMPTION.
Sure let me sit here and accept a situation that I don't want to be in because somehow that gets misperceived on CD as controlling and immature. It would have been immature of me to stay in a relationship I don't want to be in or to have bothered to given her a choice. She made her bed and she hung herself.
Stop talking so morbid. Fine you don't want complications I get that, and there can be. But many can make it work.
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