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Old 08-28-2013, 08:44 PM
 
Location: Bronx
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Overall at the end of the day a man here cant really worry about women here and they like and desire. You have to worry about yourself first and maybe a woman may come along. I would date and be in a relationship with a woman I don't find attractive. Just as long as she is cool and likes me for who I am Id be happy with it.
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Old 08-28-2013, 08:55 PM
 
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Seriously, I see unattractive (overweight/below average face) women getting cold approached constantly. Even by good looking men! Alot of them have the nerve to develop an attitude when someone "ugly" approaches them. Wtf.. Both my unattractive and attractive friends tell me similar stories about what men do for them. So i'm confused, how does a woman know she's truly attractive looking in NYC?
It's called confidence? Attitude? Attitude (confidence, self-assured) in NYC goes a long way.
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Old 08-28-2013, 09:00 PM
 
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I have learned in my life that a good personality is the most important thing. Of course, it helps to be physically attracted to them, but iv dated women who were hot, but were bat s*** crazy.

I like the "girl next door." shes a cutie and very down to earth and easy going.

Remember guys - the hotter they are, the crazier they are.
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Old 08-28-2013, 09:57 PM
 
Location: Virginia
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I think you might get approached more if you lose the insecurity and build self confidence
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Old 08-28-2013, 09:59 PM
 
Location: Virginia
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I have learned in my life that a good personality is the most important thing. Of course, it helps to be physically attracted to them, but iv dated women who were hot, but were bat s*** crazy.

I like the "girl next door." shes a cutie and very down to earth and easy going.

Remember guys - the hotter they are, the crazier they are.
I like the country girl who drives a Chevrolet truck
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Old 08-28-2013, 10:02 PM
 
Location: New Jersey!!!!
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I wish I had time to read this whole thread.
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Old 08-28-2013, 10:16 PM
 
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It's called confidence? Attitude? Attitude (confidence, self-assured) in NYC goes a long way.
Women do not need confidence in order to be approached. Men do.
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Old 08-28-2013, 10:22 PM
 
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I think you might get approached more if you lose the insecurity and build self confidence

Approached more? I stated earlier in the thread I have no problems being approached. I'm far from insecure and I'm pretty overconfident. I just didn't understand why lazy looking women can gather the same attention as "hotter" women.
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Old 08-28-2013, 10:31 PM
 
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I have noticed that women today focus too much on what they look like and not enough time on who they are. Some chicks are cool as hell...and some..are like talking to a PLANT. No personality whatsoever.

It's as if they think their looks will make up for not being personable. Ain't going to work.
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Old 08-28-2013, 10:33 PM
 
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Approached more? I stated earlier in the thread I have no problems being approached. I'm far from insecure and I'm pretty overconfident. I just didn't understand why lazy looking women can gather the same attention as "hotter" women.

MANY guys like women who dress ordinary and not pound on make up and wear high heel shoes. But I guess that's "being lazy" to you. Maybe they just don't believe all the baloney they read in magazines and understand guys like women who are simple.
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