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Old 06-14-2010, 10:12 AM
 
Location: Arlington, VA
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My very best friend has done this. I still speak to her, close friends are hard to come by. It was hard for me to judge her since most of her previous relationships were with abusive jerks. Then she meets this guy who is good-looking and caring, even paid some of her bills until his wife discovered that last fact. He swore to leave his wife, so she waited for a few months. Then he told her he couldn't leave his son and he wouldn't get divorced until the son went to college.

After that she broke it off with him, it was very hard for her, I had only seen her cry one other time. I am no fan of women who do this, but she was my friend and I felt for her.

On the other hand I know women who run after married guys like it is a game. Hard to feel sorry for them. In one instance the wife found out and beat the other woman up. Hopefully she left her husband alone.
One thing to have a person like that as a friend, but would you date someone who shows such poor judgment?

 
Old 06-14-2010, 10:18 AM
 
Location: Beautiful New England
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...would you date someone who shows such poor judgment?
I dunno...how good is she in bed?
 
Old 06-14-2010, 10:20 AM
 
Location: Arlington, VA
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"These days"??? Remove cranium from rectum, and arise and sniff the aroma of the java. Nothing new, nothing remarkable. Happens all the time.
So I have to just be find with it, and expect that any woman I date/marry has been with married guys?
 
Old 06-14-2010, 10:22 AM
 
Location: Nashville, Tn
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I also realize that this has been going on as long as human beings have existed but I've also known several women who were given this reputation by the wagging tongues of their so called friends and some who weren't friends and the stories were greatly exaggerated to say the least. Gossip can take on a life of it's own and snowball into something that gets out of control. I doubt that these women have confided with the person who wrote the OP and admitted their wrongdoings so this is almost certainly second hand information. Some of the stories are probably true but I don't believe everything I hear without some sort of persuasive evidence.
 
Old 06-14-2010, 10:23 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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So I have to just be find with it, and expect that any woman I date/marry has been with married guys?

Worry about one thing at a time - first you have to find a woman to date
 
Old 06-14-2010, 10:26 AM
 
Location: Arlington, VA
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Worry about one thing at a time - first you have to find a woman to date
Honestly, I wouldn't want to date someone who lacks morals. But if that eliminates most women, then I have a problem.
 
Old 06-14-2010, 10:30 AM
 
Location: Arlington, VA
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Doesn't it only show not only poor morals (yes, and on the married guy too) but lack of intelligence on the woman's part? I mean, what are you thinking if a guy is cheating to be with you, you think he's going to be faithful or something to you?

So poor morals and lack of intelligence aren't very appealing to me.
 
Old 06-14-2010, 10:30 AM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Honestly, I wouldn't want to date someone who lacks morals. But if that eliminates most women, then I have a problem.
Get a hold of yourself. It's no more most women than it is most men.
 
Old 06-14-2010, 10:32 AM
 
Location: Beautiful New England
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So I have to just be fine with it, and expect that any woman I date/marry has been with married guys?
"Any woman"? Certainly not. Most women don't. But it's far from being rare or uncommon.
 
Old 06-14-2010, 10:35 AM
 
Location: Beautiful New England
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I mean, what are you thinking if a guy is cheating to be with you, you think he's going to be faithful or something to you?
Well, here's another news flash for you: not everyone places a high emphasis upon faithfulness in some dating relationships. Sometimes simply having a good time is what people want...nothing more, nothing less.
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