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My very best friend has done this. I still speak to her, close friends are hard to come by. It was hard for me to judge her since most of her previous relationships were with abusive jerks. Then she meets this guy who is good-looking and caring, even paid some of her bills until his wife discovered that last fact. He swore to leave his wife, so she waited for a few months. Then he told her he couldn't leave his son and he wouldn't get divorced until the son went to college.
After that she broke it off with him, it was very hard for her, I had only seen her cry one other time. I am no fan of women who do this, but she was my friend and I felt for her.
On the other hand I know women who run after married guys like it is a game. Hard to feel sorry for them. In one instance the wife found out and beat the other woman up. Hopefully she left her husband alone.
One thing to have a person like that as a friend, but would you date someone who shows such poor judgment?
I also realize that this has been going on as long as human beings have existed but I've also known several women who were given this reputation by the wagging tongues of their so called friends and some who weren't friends and the stories were greatly exaggerated to say the least. Gossip can take on a life of it's own and snowball into something that gets out of control. I doubt that these women have confided with the person who wrote the OP and admitted their wrongdoings so this is almost certainly second hand information. Some of the stories are probably true but I don't believe everything I hear without some sort of persuasive evidence.
Doesn't it only show not only poor morals (yes, and on the married guy too) but lack of intelligence on the woman's part? I mean, what are you thinking if a guy is cheating to be with you, you think he's going to be faithful or something to you?
So poor morals and lack of intelligence aren't very appealing to me.
I mean, what are you thinking if a guy is cheating to be with you, you think he's going to be faithful or something to you?
Well, here's another news flash for you: not everyone places a high emphasis upon faithfulness in some dating relationships. Sometimes simply having a good time is what people want...nothing more, nothing less.
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