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Old 06-14-2010, 11:09 AM
 
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But it's pretty common knowledge that is more difficult for guys to do this, so a small pool of guys are having most of the sex with women. Women desire men that other women desire, do they not? So it's much mor likely that a woman sleeps with married guys than men sleep with married women.
If that is so, it just means married women have higher morals than married men.

Sex is for the most part one on one. Women are not sharing the same few men. You must be thinking of the Amazon women. I dont know who has led you to believe only a select small group of men are having sex.

No, women do not desire men other women desire just because other women desire him. Sure there are certain hunky men a whole lot of women desire. And there are some women who just dont care if a man is taken as some men dont care if a woman is taken.

 
Old 06-14-2010, 11:10 AM
 
Location: Arlington, VA
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You should be worrying more about this, dude. Why are they shagging married men and "not" you LMAO
Because there's more drama if she bangs guys who are not available.

Why anyone would get married and expect a committed, life long relationship today has to be delusional or insane given the divorce rates, the infidelity rates.

So why are people getting married?
 
Old 06-14-2010, 11:12 AM
 
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Doesn't it only show not only poor morals (yes, and on the married guy too) but lack of intelligence on the woman's part? I mean, what are you thinking if a guy is cheating to be with you, you think he's going to be faithful or something to you?

So poor morals and lack of intelligence aren't very appealing to me.

poor morals? lmao...

Morals don't and never have existed.
 
Old 06-14-2010, 11:12 AM
 
Location: Arlington, VA
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If that is so, it just means married women have higher morals than married men.

Sex is for the most part one on one. Women are not sharing the same few men. You must be thinking of the Amazon women. I dont know who has led you to believe only a select small group of men are having sex.

No, women do not desire men other women desire just because other women desire him. Sure there are certain hunky men a whole lot of women desire. And there are some women who just dont care if a man is taken as some men dont care if a woman is taken.
Why are there such high disparities in STD infections if women aren't sharing a small pool of men? It's not easier for women to catch herpes or HPV. You have the same odds of getting it if you are a male or female, and condoms aren't very effective against them, yet women have much higher HPV and herpes infection rates. Because women have sex with a small pool of guys who are having most of the sex, hence they are much more likely to have HPV/Herpes.
 
Old 06-14-2010, 11:16 AM
 
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Oh, i get it now.

This is just a conservative rant. Well bud, even in more conservative times, people cheated.

there are a lot of things that go on, which are not desirable. This will not change.
 
Old 06-14-2010, 11:24 AM
 
Location: Arlington, VA
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Oh, i get it now.

This is just a conservative rant. Well bud, even in more conservative times, people cheated.

there are a lot of things that go on, which are not desirable. This will not change.
Do you think marriage will die it given what a joke it seems to be these days?

What other arrangement would people enter that has over a 50% failure rate and a much higher rate of being totally miserable in?
 
Old 06-14-2010, 11:26 AM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Keep in mind, the married man is breaking the vow he took with his wife. The single woman exchanged vows with no one.
Doesn't the Judeo-Christian view hold that the Devil is evil incarnate? The Devil doesn't DO evil things, the Devil TEMPTS people to do evil things. Thus, women who would tempt married men to violate their (assumed) sacred vows, are equivalent to evil incarnate. It's every bit as wrong for these women as it is for the men who are breaking their vows.

Even if you don't believe in religion-based morality, it is still unethical to act in ways that will damage or entice someone to damage their existing relationships. Without interference from a third party, they may have been able to keep their vows and avoid the pain and disruption their infidelity could cause.
 
Old 06-14-2010, 11:27 AM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Do you think marriage will die it given what a joke it seems to be these days?

What other arrangement would people enter that has over a 50% failure rate and a much higher rate of being totally miserable in?
So why bother because divorce rate is so high, is that what you're saying? I see your point. On that note, why don't more people commit suicide? After all, they're going to die anyway. Right?
 
Old 06-14-2010, 11:29 AM
 
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thanks for the veiled personal attack. Sorry if i think people who have sex with married people disgust me.

It was NOT an attack - it was an observation.

YOU HAVE ISSUES, as anyone who's been on a thread with you in the past knows. And the issues are not the morals of women However, you continue to avoid dealing with your own issues and prefer to stick with woman bashing as a distraction.

Hey, it's your life to waste.
 
Old 06-14-2010, 11:55 AM
 
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Yes, so why is she having sex with a married guy?
Probably different reasons for different women.

I've known women over the years who only seem to go after other women's men. It's old mommy issues or daddy issues or a combination, but they are only "triumphant" when they take away somebody's else's man. I can think of two women I know who stick to that pattern, and to those of us who know their backgrounds, it's obvious what they are doing--repeating the past, over and over, hoping for a different result this time. Almost always, if the man does actually leave his wife, he leaves these woman a short time later for a new replacement.

In other cases, there are women who can't find a man for a relationship or marriage of their own, so they settle for a "part-time" relationship with a married man thinking that half a loaf is better than none. Others can sit and point fingers about morals and whatnot, but they aren't the ones who find themselves so alone and unloved that they get to a point where their own morals become compromised. A lot of times these women fool themselves into thinking that the man will someday leave his wife for them. Usually that doesn't happen. This latter situation is the same reason some women marry losers when it's obvious to everyone else that they are marrying a loser. They want someone, but no one wants them, so they lower their standards.
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