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Old 06-27-2011, 02:33 PM
 
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My question directed at women. But men can also share the signals you received from women that gave you the courage to make a move and ask her out.

My other question to women is if you like to be asked out unsolicited or would you rather send a signal that shows your interest beforehand?
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Old 06-27-2011, 03:48 PM
 
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She flirted with me.
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Old 06-27-2011, 03:53 PM
 
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My question directed at women. But men can also share the signals you received from women that gave you the courage to make a move and ask her out.

My other question to women is if you like to be asked out unsolicited or would you rather send a signal that shows your interest beforehand?
What kind of signals do I like to receive? A girl asking me out is a nice signal plain and simple . It is quite nice when this happens. I have experienced it while living in Asia or with non-westernized Asian girls outside of Asia. Asking a girl out is nice too.

Women in general prefer to be asked out as it has been previously mentioned in other threads instead of taking the inititative. And if some ever ask a guy it will probably be their very own boyfriend, husband, or someting that has already taken them out for a while but not a complete stranger. Exceptions are out there of course.
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Old 06-27-2011, 05:25 PM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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Look at him a lot and smile sometimes but mainly just always catching his eye. If he's shy you may have to look more. Or, just hit him over the head and drag him home--whichever is your style.
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Old 06-27-2011, 05:39 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Flirt. Get close to them. Learn their interest. Be one of the boys instead of sitting all there and pretty. Wrestle them. ahahaha
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Old 06-27-2011, 05:50 PM
 
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If I want to go out with a guy, I ask him out.

Why play games?
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Old 06-27-2011, 06:00 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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A little note saying, "Do you want to go to a movie? Mark one: ___ Yes ___ No."

Or prolonged eye contact, smile, blush, look away, and then look back, still smiling.

Both of these have worked for me.
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Old 06-27-2011, 09:48 PM
 
Location: Raleigh, NC
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The flirting can include:
"I'm getting hungry, are you?"
"I hear that movie is really good....."
"Oh, I sure could use some coffee right about now ...."
etc

Girls: remember that you are the masters of communication. We understand beer commercials.
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Old 06-27-2011, 10:15 PM
 
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The flirting can include:
"I'm getting hungry, are you?"
"I hear that movie is really good....."
"Oh, I sure could use some coffee right about now ...."
etc

Girls: remember that you are the masters of communication. We understand beer commercials.
Yep! This is how I communicate to the guy that I'm interested in.
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Old 06-28-2011, 05:27 AM
 
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Hit him with a club over the head. Drag him to the cave.
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