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Old 06-28-2011, 06:17 AM
 
Location: Raleigh, NC
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Hit him with a club over the head. Drag him to the cave.
Nope, that's how men 'flirt' with women.

For women, they just lay a trail of Cheetos for him to follow.
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Old 06-28-2011, 06:34 AM
 
Location: Earth
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Hit him with a club over the head. Drag him to the cave.
For some, that would still be a little too subtle.
I don't get subtleties.
Either be direct or move on. I feel that people of the opposite sex deserve to be treated as well.
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Old 06-28-2011, 06:46 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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I agree women should be more direct generally
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Old 06-28-2011, 09:41 AM
 
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Repeated eye contact means she's interested.

Proximity is a signal too. If you're at the window and she's in front of you. Then you're playing pool and she's next to you. You finally go to the bar and she's behind you.
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Old 06-28-2011, 12:00 PM
 
Location: Houston, Texas
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I can't believe no one said "COMPLIMENTS"
Nothing is more powerful to a man then to compliment him. Don't just make something up that ain't true. Figure out what he is interested in. Something he is good at. Use it as a tool.

When I went to sales training many years ago they taught us to quickly scan their home's contents. What do you see that you might have in common with that homeowner. You see a fishing trophy? Oh well you can say Mr Homeowner I see you like fishing too? I love fishing. Now you all have something in common and the ice has been broken.

Use this technique to gain some insight to what the person you have interest in likes and you can get into their life and maybe their heart by complimenting him on an interest or skill. But most of all don't be scared of rejection. As a rule men never reject a woman's advances.
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Old 06-28-2011, 12:08 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I don't remember what I used to do. Sometimes I did just ask the guy out - but as for what I did to let a guy know I wanted him to ask me out? I don't remember. It must have been enough though since all the guys I wanted to go out with asked me out... I do tend to wear my emotions on my sleeve though - so maybe that was a big part of it. And I'm a big flirt. However - I flirt with everyone - it's just kind of my nature.
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Old 06-29-2011, 12:07 AM
 
Location: Raleigh, NC
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I remember one suggestion I heard a while back:

Act like every word they say is fascinating to you. That kind of attention really promotes getting closer.
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Old 06-29-2011, 12:18 AM
 
Location: Southern California
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A little note saying, "Do you want to go to a movie? Mark one: ___ Yes ___ No."

Or prolonged eye contact, smile, blush, look away, and then look back, still smiling.

Both of these have worked for me.
I did that once...

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Old 06-29-2011, 12:28 AM
 
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I agree women should be more direct generally
Dave...would you like to go out with me ???
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Old 06-29-2011, 03:42 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Dave...would you like to go out with me ???
Any man would be crazy to turn you down, your profile picture is beautiful

Too bad I aren't in CA
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