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Old 07-21-2012, 03:01 PM
 
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Attractive guys with overweight women? I saw it occasionally while living in Florida, but even then it wasn't terribly common. I've been in NYC for a little over a year and don't see that at all.

 
Old 07-21-2012, 03:15 PM
 
Location: Virginia Beach, VA
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Lol my attitude, I have the sweetest attitude and I have alot going for myself, just trying to make my way in this crazy world we live in.
You also don't have anything to prove to me, so there is no need to get defensive.

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I adore all women of all sizes.
As do I.

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Talking about my attitude? You dont even know me.
Absolutely right. All I can go off of are the words you place into this forum. Using phrases like "chubby women are supposed to be easy" is not a good first impression.

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Chubby women used to have amazing attitudes but now their attitudes is just as bad as mean hot women.
I would argue that it isn't all that different than it ever was. Some chubby women are insecure in themselves, others are very empowered and have a lot of confidence in themselves. Not really all that different from women of other body types.

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I know some guys who married and also had children with chubby women and for some its one of the worst mistakes they made because they have to wrestle with child support system and so forth, and there fat wives was just as mean as regular slim women.
Is it the woman's physical traits that make her mean? Is the fact that she is a chubby woman the cause of all the drama? If not, than her physical appearance is irrelevant to the drama that took place in the lives of your acquaintance.

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Now on the streets of NYC I have seen lately chubby women of all sizes with attractive men. If your an average joe chubby chicks wont give you a second look unless if you have money.
I'm married so I am not paying close attention. But a chubby woman who won't give you a second look unless you have money is no worse than a "hot" one who acts the same way. Once again, this is a matter of attitude and mental mindset, and not physical appearance.
 
Old 07-21-2012, 03:19 PM
 
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Fat girls get dates, relationships, get married and have children in America all the time.

I don't understand this myth that they don't get men










Oh wait, they don't get the hot rich men. Well duh, rich guys don't date fat girls, that's just the way of life. Doesn't mean they can't be happy too
 
Old 07-21-2012, 03:26 PM
 
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I likes me a nice meaty healthy girl.
Me too! Heaven, pure heaven.
 
Old 07-21-2012, 03:50 PM
 
Location: Australia
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Hi guys
 
Old 07-21-2012, 03:52 PM
 
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Hi guys
G'day
 
Old 07-22-2012, 02:45 AM
 
Location: Bronx
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Attractive guys with overweight women? I saw it occasionally while living in Florida, but even then it wasn't terribly common. I've been in NYC for a little over a year and don't see that at all.
Take a trip outside of Manhattan and head to the outer boroughs and you see what I mean, outside of NYC women of all shapes and sizes either have a man or an FWB going on.
 
Old 07-22-2012, 02:49 AM
 
Location: Bronx
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You also don't have anything to prove to me, so there is no need to get defensive.



As do I.



Absolutely right. All I can go off of are the words you place into this forum. Using phrases like "chubby women are supposed to be easy" is not a good first impression.



I would argue that it isn't all that different than it ever was. Some chubby women are insecure in themselves, others are very empowered and have a lot of confidence in themselves. Not really all that different from women of other body types.



Is it the woman's physical traits that make her mean? Is the fact that she is a chubby woman the cause of all the drama? If not, than her physical appearance is irrelevant to the drama that took place in the lives of your acquaintance.



I'm married so I am not paying close attention. But a chubby woman who won't give you a second look unless you have money is no worse than a "hot" one who acts the same way. Once again, this is a matter of attitude and mental mindset, and not physical appearance.
I have been getting a lot of attention by slim chicks as of lately. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder this goes for overweight and skinny people alike male or female, this is what I realize.
 
Old 07-22-2012, 02:55 AM
 
Location: Bronx
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Some years ago I was on the bus ride home coming from a Yankee game and a mother was talking to her daughter on the bus on why she should not be sad. The daughter was only 13 years old and she wanted a boyfriend and guys wont like her because she is too fat. The mother told her that some guys love fat @#$@#es and you wont have a problem finding a man because all a man want is what is in between your thigh. I look back and I have to say this lady was right. I'm Where from I see fat women have kids with multiple different men and some even get married to unbelievable looking guys. Sadly a lot of overweight women avoid decent good guys especially overweight good guys.
 
Old 07-22-2012, 05:27 AM
 
Location: Lower east side of Toronto
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I go for skinny women. How many fat women regularly go to the gym or live a healthy lifestyle? Not too many. I could never go for that.
What about those naturally large Russian woman who are like AMAZONs... Six foot tall and muscled- can bench press their own weight...Can punch like a man....when one of these big boned woman gain a bit of body fat- people look at them as being FAT- mean while their health is perfect condition....and STRONG stronger than most men.....I know of such a girl and she goes to the gym also..to the average she appears fat but she is just a big ancient powerful woman...These types do exist.
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