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Most of the people I know in relationships are the fat ones...and they were fat before they got "comfortable".
Not that I care, its just an observation that I don't understand given all this talk that men want an attractive and slender woman.
I have some other cute/thin single friends with great personalities who are having such a hard time. I don't get it.
I think I responded to this one once before but have to admit, everytime I see the word "FAT" when it refers to women who are bigger it irks me..I am what you would consider "FAT" and have to tell you..please don't call us "FAT". We prefer perhaps "Fluffy", "Comfy", "Thick", "Chunky", "Chubby" or any one of the other 1,000 or more terms for someone who is perhaps 20 lbs or more over what those damn Insurance Charts suggest. Men want women who although might be "Thick" or "Fluffy" can love them more than they love themselves, are fun to be with, make no demands and once married to them will give them beautiful kids, a clean home and a happy life. Am I married..ABSOLUTELY. Am I still "THICK"? YUP, workin on it. Do I have kids..YUP..all grown up and my husband now?? #3 and 10 years younger...gorgeous and very successful. SIGH......so much for your FAT theory.
I have been getting a lot of attention by slim chicks as of lately. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder this goes for overweight and skinny people alike male or female, this is what I realize.
I'm not sure how this response addresses any of the points that I made. I'll at least take it for face value and agree with the merits of this statement.
Most of the people I know in relationships are the fat ones...and they were fat before they got "comfortable".
Not that I care, its just an observation that I don't understand given all this talk that men want an attractive and slender woman.
I have some other cute/thin single friends with great personalities who are having such a hard time. I don't get it.
Just an observation but whenever I hear a woman say she cant understand why good looking friend X who is cute/thin and with great personality is single one or more of those things are not true and she also has herpes and lives with 107 cats.
While you may not find fat ladies, BBW, pleasingly plump or whatever you call them, attractive, many men do. I suppose the younger ones don't have much choice.
Phat women can get men. Just maybe not the ones they want. And, do you really want a man who "settled" for you, because he could not get what he really wanted? How dysfunctional is that...
high-school should serve as a good example of why 'fat' women can still get men. specifically, high school is perhaps the biggest conflagration of shallow non-sense many will go through in terms of looks mattering more than anything. And yet, in my high school at least, ever fat girl had a boy-friend. the point is its not about the fat but ones own attitude about that fat. personally, i've met women (fat or thin) i wasn't attracted to upon first look. however, after a brief conversation I found them the sexiest person in the room/area. it's about working it, honeys. ain't no weight should be holding you down...unless you're morbidly obese... Same goes for men to a lesser extent...though i believe stats point to the young age bracket of men having a harder time. it's not just because they're men, but because when polled it was shown men are bigger sluts (i.e. younger guys on average are more willingly to sleep with strangers).
What about those naturally large Russian woman who are like AMAZONs... Six foot tall and muscled- can bench press their own weight...Can punch like a man....when one of these big boned woman gain a bit of body fat- people look at them as being FAT- mean while their health is perfect condition....and STRONG stronger than most men.....I know of such a girl and she goes to the gym also..to the average she appears fat but she is just a big ancient powerful woman...These types do exist.
Phat women can get men. Just maybe not the ones they want. And, do you really want a man who "settled" for you, because he could not get what he really wanted? How dysfunctional is that...
And once again I am compelled to point out that not all men who are with big girls have "settled." Many of them are perfectly content with the partner they have chosen. Not every woman who is with a big guy "settled." There is nothing dysfunctional about being with a person to whom you are perfectly attracted. Even if that person does not meet society's idea of what is "attractive."
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ain't no weight should be holding you down...unless you're morbidly obese...
Same goes for men to a lesser extent...though i believe stats point to the young age bracket of men having a harder time. it's not just because they're men, but because when polled it was shown men are bigger sluts (i.e. younger guys on average are more willingly to sleep with strangers).