Is being a 24 year-old male virgin weird & wrong? (guys, younger, family)
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It takes about no effort for woman to find a man willing to have sex with her. It even takes about no effort for most women to find a hot/attractive man to have sex with her.
But there is an ocean full of men who, even with effort, cannot find one woman willing to have sex with them.
I don't get why so many guys allow something as trivial as not having sex make them feel bad about themselves.
Surely they can find something more fulfilling if they tried.
As far as that whole quantity thing, me and majority of the other women I know would much rather have quality.
So technically it is a choice. They choose to wallow in self pity.
It takes about no effort for woman to find a man willing to have sex with her. It even takes about no effort for most women to find a hot/attractive man to have sex with her.
But there is an ocean full of men who, even with effort, cannot find one woman willing to have sex with them.
It's said it's easy for a woman to get sex. But will the sex be good? That's a question. Many times, a guy will just wanna get in, get off, and get out, not care to give foreplay, or see that the lady is pleased and gets off, in cases of ONS / hook-up.
As someone said, it's easy as heck to find a guy who looks at a woman as a bunch of holes to stick something in-like a bad porno where it's all about the guy's pleasure. And for most women, that doesn't make for good sex, and ends with the lady in question still be frustrated when she%2
Last edited by HappyRain; 02-14-2015 at 09:32 AM..
I don't get why so many guys allow something as trivial as not having sex make them feel bad about themselves.
Surely they can find something more fulfilling if they tried.
As far as that whole quantity thing, me and majority of the other women I know would much rather have quality.
So technically it is a choice. They choose to wallow in self pity.
Confidence. There is a slippery slope and a danger of downward spiral and for the failure to permeate their soul; some recover in time to at least salvage a career, some don't.
Just lie about it and you will be good....I think telling a girl you are a virgin at age 24 isn't the smartest thing to do....
Yes, dishonesty is an excellent way to begin a relationship!
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Originally Posted by VanillaChocolate
Now if one can honestly say nobody has ever liked them, even someone they didn't like back, then I could see it being bothersome.
Well, one girl did in the 7th grade. Since then I've received no romantic attention and I'm in my last year of college. At this point it feels like never.
It is fine to save yourself for marriage, however your love for Jesus shouldn't stop you from kissing or dating. What is your reason for telling people you are a virgin, it is really something you don't need to share?
The information does not ever have to be volunteered. The particulars are not reliably verifiable anyway. Fake it. People lie and exaggerate the numbers all the time. It’s only a problem if the OP makes it an issue or allows others to make him feel bad. For some unknown reason, there are too many misguided individuals who feel compelled to make him feel bad about being a virgin when it is really nobody else’s business. Anyone who would reject someone, or worse, intentionally want them to feel anything negative about it isn’t worth knowing or being around anyway.
Yes, dishonesty is an excellent way to begin a relationship!
Well, one girl did in the 7th grade. Since then I've received no romantic attention and I'm in my last year of college. At this point it feels like never.
Depressing reality I discovered is that for those who experience difficulty in their school years, those school years are actually the golden years of opportunity, and it gets even more difficult once you're out of school, unless you are a superstar in your line of work.
The information does not ever have to be volunteered.
I think guys volunteer the information because they think it will take the pressure off them and explain any awkwardness. Also they probably think that sharing something so intimate with a woman will make them closer. Of course if she dumps him for it it could devastate him as well.
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