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There is an old saying ...
Moma's baby ... Daddy's maybe.
Take the test and then there will be no doubt ! ! !
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Doubting someone after 30 years is a little late. The man is being an abusive, antisocial, belligerent churl. Still, I think they should do the test, just to shut him up and have him eat crow.
Doubting someone after 30 years is a little late. The man is being an abusive, antisocial, belligerent churl. Still, I think they should do the test, just to shut him up and have him eat crow.
Well it does happen because I know a women who has a son who is
around 28 years old and ( married with children ) and is not related to
his dad's family in any way, and the one who he calles dad is not his dad
because the mother told me he was not his son.
My mother used my father's laptop the other day and found his email open. She saw several emails with highly sexual content and many of them were answers to escort ads.
They had a huge argument and my father said he also had reasons to doubt her. He said he was always suspicious about me (I'm the younger son and the one he likes the least). Therefore he wants a paternity test done on me and my brothers as well.
He's 65 and she's 57. She keeps crying and doesn't know what to do. I know what she should do but she has never left him. In the past he has got two of his assistants and three of his patients pregnant but he always managed to convince them to have an abortion.
Women, any suggestion? I'm okay with the paternity test, there's no way I'm not his son. The nose, the eyes, the mouth are copies of his. I even have the same birth mark in the chest.
She should definitely get the DNA tests done NOW....while he's legally co-responsible for the bill. Hey, if your mom didn't get pregnant with another man's child, she has nothing to worry about, does she?
Doubting someone after 30 years is a little late. The man is being an abusive, antisocial, belligerent churl. Still, I think they should do the test, just to shut him up and have him eat crow.
Like I said he has given up on the idea because he knows the truth as well as my mother. My mother was incredibly naive when she married him. But I would do the test if he wanted it.
I'm sorry, but if any girl child or even your wives is around my father and he was like yours...well, first of all I wouldn't be in contact with him at all, and I would have zero respect for my mother. But that aside, I would be watching him like a hawk.
He is a sexual deviant, and he doesn't play with you or your brothers or your nephews because you are males.
In the words of Antoine Dodson: hide your kids, hide your wife!
I assure you he wouldn't hurt the kids, at least not in the way that you're thinking. His bedroom was right next to mine when I was a child!
I read your post, but did not read the comments you've received, so forgive me if I parrot someone.
I was in a very abusive marriage 18 years ago....
I would never marry again, nor do I date, No desire...
A lot of times, men like your father run a pattern which is pretty much identical
Men that throw the argument back on the wife, like your father did....did that to totally hyjack the conversation away from him, b/c he is guilty...so, they come up with some off the wall counter attack that totally shocks the other person (your mother) into forgetting that she was asking him about him....
He has probably done this many times to her, but she is so used to it, by now....
I tell you and promise you, these men take away your total identity....
Your father is mentally ill and needs help, chances are, he will not get it and he's way to old to change.
But this is all very unhealthy for your mother...
and for her own peace of mind, If I were your mom, I'd get the test, b/c she is probably so insecure from your fathers accusations all of their lives together, that she needs to realize the truth and get some very good counseling.
Sorry, I don't want to hurt your feelings, but if I were you, I'd make darn sure, you don't treat others like your father does, b/c when you grow up in this kind of environment, some of it is bound to rub off. Just saying.....
I don't get the point of a paternity test. That has NOTHING to do with your mother at this point, he isn't going to pay child support to a 30 year old. The only thing it could do is challenge the father/child relationship and it would have to be pretty weak to start with for that to happen.
If I was your mom I'd tell him to go for it. He doesn't really need her permission or involvement.
I don't get the point of a paternity test. That has NOTHING to do with your mother at this point, he isn't going to pay child support to a 30 year old. The only thing it could do is challenge the father/child relationship and it would have to be pretty weak to start with for that to happen.
If I was your mom I'd tell him to go for it. He doesn't really need her permission or involvement.
The guy has the right to know if his sons are his or not. Doesn't matter how many years ago they were born.
The guy has the right to know if his sons are his or not. Doesn't matter how many years ago they were born.
He is projecting and diverting. The OP and entire family should agree to have the tests - and agree up front with the cheater ( I mean father) - that if the results come in clear - that the father be banned from any family gatherings in the future and no future contact from all of those questionable (yeah, I know) grandchildren. He won't agree - because he knows he is projecting.
Don't even play with it! That's repulsive. My dad is a cheater, a liar and a bastard but not a pedophile! He doesn't sexualize children, he acts like any normal grandfather would.
P.S. Thanks for the website.
David you may not want to that that of your Father. He has proven himself to be untrustworthy.
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Hey, if your mom didn't get pregnant with another man's child, she has nothing to worry about, does she? 
David you may not want to that that of your Father. He has proven himself to be untrustworthy. 
