Cousin says she feels like my mom and grounded me (college, money)

[luckynumber4]

Your cousin really sounds crazy. For your sanity's sake, move out. And in the meantime, stop telling her about your personal life. She doesn't need to know when you go out on dates. She doesn't need to know how much you drink when you're out. Lie if you have to. But seriously, move out. Then tell her to get a hobby.

[chicagokid]

my grades are fine. This is just her whole " I just want you to be safe because I care" act

[Kibbiekat]

Originally Posted by chicagokid

if we reversed roles, i wouldn't giver her any rules at all because I would respect her as a 19 year old adult.

Only if that 19 year old is paying rent.

[Blazah1080]

you have it easy kid. All b's are not fine.

Free everything? Hope you learn your lesson and stop drinking underage.

[chicagokid]

how are all b's not fine?

[malamute]

Originally Posted by chicagokid

my parents said I can't move out though

Her house, her rules. He who pays makes the rules.

You're 19. If you get yourself a job and find yourself an apartment then you can move out. You're legally old enough to work and support yourself.

[chicagokid]

why can't she just lighten up a little, be a little more lenient?

[chicagokid]

she drank underage too

[malamute]

Originally Posted by chicagokid

why can't she just lighten up a little, be a little more lenient?

I think if you would chip in for half the rent and be roommates instead of a freebie, she would lighten up a bit.

[chicagokid]

" be roommates"? Is this the bed thing again. Contrary to what you might think I'm not a total slob. Can we all agree that she goes overboard when it comes to girls?