Friend's friend doesn't like me? (roommate, conversation, wife, person)

[movin'on]

Originally Posted by TheImportersWife

Then why did you invite her to dinner???

A friend of a friend sort of thing. I didn't realize I didn't like her so much until her rudeness.

[virgode]

And now this will be your weapon to use against her

Spiteful much?

[Jays1983]

Originally Posted by virgode

And now this will be your weapon to use against her

Spiteful much?

I'm hearing jinglebells in the distance...and it ain't christmas

[virgode]

Originally Posted by Jays1983

I'm hearing jinglebells in the distance...and it ain't christmas

Lmao,

[wigirl920]

Originally Posted by movin'on

I don't know. I could just as well post the checkout girl at the grocery store was rude to me and what is wrong with some people?! Registers about as much as that. I just wish I didn't have to see her again.

Truth is, from what I know I don't think much of her. She does not work and keeps some guy around just for financial reasons. She doesn't even sleep with him. I don't think too highly of her but it's an irritant.

And her not sleeping with him is bad because...? I dunno, I would think worse of her if she was keeping him around for financial reasons and sleeping with him as a means to "repay." But that's just me

You don't care for the woman and she blew off you and your mutual friend. Not worth wasting your energy on someone like that. When you see her on Thanksgiving be pleasant and be thankful for the good friends you do have....

[Thursday007]

Originally Posted by virgode

And now this will be your weapon to use against her

Spiteful much?

Yes.....see below

Originally Posted by movin'on

I don't know. I could just as well post the checkout girl at the grocery store was rude to me and what is wrong with some people?! Registers about as much as that. I just wish I didn't have to see her again.

Truth is, from what I know I don't think much of her. She does not work and keeps some guy around just for financial reasons. She doesn't even sleep with him. I don't think too highly of her but it's an irritant.

Ordinarily I'd let something like this fly by, but who are you to judge another's relationship with relationships like this of your own? Possibly she found out about YOU and doesn't think so hightly of you. Can I get in trouble for sending something to someone's workplace against their wishes?

[samston]

I don't get this thread, in honesty.

ok, so somebody blanked you, and hence did not respond. is it worth feeling offended at this?

friendships take time to build, especially in adulthood. as kids, we could readily accept somebody as close friends without much effort. i think as we get older though, our greater maturity leads us to feel others should prove their trustworthiness to us.

I get the feeling she doesn't really care, since she holds no tie to you. I don't think we should be in losing positions in life.

[andreaspercheron]

It's not even YOUR friend, it's a friend of a friend, if they don't show up, who cares? Was it rude to be invited, accept and then not show? Sure, it was rude but here again, if this isn't someone you are around all the time and know well, you can't possibly predict their behavior.

[movin'on]

Originally Posted by virgode

And now this will be your weapon to use against her

Spiteful much?

Huh? I don't follow. She really isn't that important at all, but it's not every day I run into someone like this.

Something else that bugs me - we both belong to this same women's group. She took it upon herself to create these T-Shirts we are supposed to buy for $25? Check made payable to her? Then she flips things and says check made payable to women's group, although the flyer says check made payable to her? It doesn't pass the smell test. Oh well, there are all kinds of people out there. I just don't buy a T-Shirt. Shrug.

I really like my friend. It's just I am not sure I should associate with my friend's friends, which makes things tricky.

[TheImportersWife]

Originally Posted by movin'on

Huh? I don't follow. She really isn't that important at all, but it's not every day I run into someone like this.

Something else that bugs me - we both belong to this same women's group. She took it upon herself to create these T-Shirts we are supposed to buy for $25? Check made payable to her? Then she flips things and says check made payable to women's group, although the flyer says check made payable to her? It doesn't pass the smell test. Oh well, there are all kinds of people out there. I just don't buy a T-Shirt. Shrug.

I really like my friend. It's just I am not sure I should associate with my friend's friends, which makes things tricky.

Did you ask this woman directly where the funds were going and whom the check should be made out to?

She may very well have good intentions, just didn't know how to run the money aspect of it.


Do you trust your friend's judgements when it comes to friends?