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Old 09-18-2010, 01:06 PM
 
Location: The Midwest
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Exactly-on the weekends, we sometimes let it slide a bit. Like I said, I run a structured home, and I think that's reflected in my rules I set up.
OK- thanks for clearing that up. I was assuming that even on the weekends/summer, the kids still had to be up by 6.
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Old 09-18-2010, 01:08 PM
 
Location: maryland
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Who said anything about older teens?
My children are 16 (I'll give you that exception), 13, and 11. I have 2 more that moved out.

Well i don't know how you work the rules...some parents bend them as kids get older. And 16 is an older teen if you ask me.
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Old 09-18-2010, 01:10 PM
 
Location: Detroit's Marina District
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I would feel like I was in an alternate dimension if teenagers willingly went to bed at 10 pm.
Or a house with good parenting? Before I go to bed, which is generally around 11-ish, I check their rooms, and if they're texting or on the computer or doing anything besides sleeping, I'll take their phone or their computer monitor for the next few days. I've only had to do that once, for each one of them, and they learned their lesson. When you have a house with consequences for bad behavior, everyone follows directions.
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Old 09-18-2010, 01:10 PM
 
Location: Wherever life takes me.
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I would love it .

Me three.
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Old 09-18-2010, 01:11 PM
 
Location: Detroit's Marina District
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Well i don't know how you work the rules...some parents bend them as kids get older. And 16 is an older teen if you ask me.
That's why I said I'll give you that exception.
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Old 09-18-2010, 01:15 PM
 
Location: Wherever life takes me.
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Or a house with good parenting? Before I go to bed, which is generally around 11-ish, I check their rooms, and if they're texting or on the computer or doing anything besides sleeping, I'll take their phone or their computer monitor for the next few days. I've only had to do that once, for each one of them, and they learned their lesson. When you have a house with consequences for bad behavior, everyone follows directions.
I've actually sent text messages in my sleep.
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Old 09-18-2010, 01:16 PM
 
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Or a house with good parenting? Before I go to bed, which is generally around 11-ish, I check their rooms, and if they're texting or on the computer or doing anything besides sleeping, I'll take their phone or their computer monitor for the next few days. I've only had to do that once, for each one of them, and they learned their lesson. When you have a house with consequences for bad behavior, everyone follows directions.
Completely an unfair qualifier. You are not a better parent because you make your kids go to bed earlier than others.
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Old 09-18-2010, 01:21 PM
 
Location: Detroit's Marina District
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Completely an unfair qualifier. You are not a better parent because you make your kids go to bed earlier than others.
Its not because I make them go to sleep earlier. You missed the point. My point was, when my children violate the rules I set, I react with a punishment. Unfortunately, that can't be said for alot of parents today. It's ashame.
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Old 09-18-2010, 01:21 PM
 
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Or a house with good parenting? ...When you have a house with consequences for bad behavior, everyone follows directions.
I think it depends on the family and particular individuals involved. My teenage daughter has recently experienced some pretty severe consequences for her behavior, and the jury is still out on whether she's going to start following directions.
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Old 09-18-2010, 01:23 PM
 
Location: Detroit's Marina District
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I think it depends on the family and particular individuals involved. My teenage daughter has recently experienced some pretty severe consequences for her behavior, and the jury is still out on whether she's going to start following directions.
Well, I'm sorry to hear about that. But there are exceptions to every rule, you have to remember that.
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