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If my boyfriend/husband watched pornography, he would no longer be my boyfriend/husband because I classify that as cheating. I wish more women lived by this policy when in relationships. When I was younger I used to watch it with my exes... why do you think that didn't work out? Eventually, pornography turns ones mind to mush. First, its to explore new ways of pleasure and to be more erotic but in the end, and in most cases, it makes a relationship lose its value. Especially when men start looking at women as sex objects and start using, abusing, neglecting, fighting, and cheating on women.
Im with you!! Porn is cheating! But question is if your spouse allows you to watch porn, is it then considered cheating? Where do we draw the line? Lust is lust no matter if its on a screen or live.
Generally speaking, Porn is very bad for young people that have little or no experience with a real sexual relationship, it gives a twisted idea of what what men and women actually enjoy.
Many things shown in porn will end any further activity and possibly get the person smacked and not in a nice way.
It is also bad for adults if it replaces a normal sexual relationship.
If it is used to enhance a sexual relationship where both parties enjoy it then there isn't usually a problem, if it gives one person ideas that the other doesn't like then it can be a problem.
Porn is a anomaly ... a BILLION dollar industry that no-one watches.
Last edited by Trackwatch; 01-23-2012 at 11:03 PM..
If my boyfriend/husband watched pornography, he would no longer be my boyfriend/husband because I classify that as cheating. I wish more women lived by this policy when in relationships. When I was younger I used to watch it with my exes... why do you think that didn't work out? Eventually, pornography turns ones mind to mush. First, its to explore new ways of pleasure and to be more erotic but in the end, and in most cases, it makes a relationship lose its value. Especially when men start looking at women as sex objects and start using, abusing, neglecting, fighting, and cheating on women.
So basically you dated men who were so weak-minded that porn turned their brain turned to mush? Charming specimens, you chose. The men I've dated never had that problem.
You're in for a few surprises as you get older. All attitudes like yours do is prompt a guy to lie to you, or dump you for being a controlling harpy. Men don't like to be told what they can and cannot do any more than women do. You issuing an ultimatum like that is going to get you laughed at on a good day, told off on a bad.
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If my boyfriend/husband watched pornography, he would no longer be my boyfriend/husband because I classify that as cheating. I wish more women lived by this policy when in relationships. When I was younger I used to watch it with my exes... why do you think that didn't work out? Eventually, pornography turns ones mind to mush. First, its to explore new ways of pleasure and to be more erotic but in the end, and in most cases, it makes a relationship lose its value. Especially when men start looking at women as sex objects and start using, abusing, neglecting, fighting, and cheating on women.
you may as well embrace singledom or being lied to as Yvette pointed out. And your relationships (plural) ended due to JUST porn? Doubtful.
Last edited by darrensmooth; 01-24-2012 at 12:47 AM..
While I don't attempt to control or restrict others' rights to view online adult content if they wish, the pro-adult content lobby is one example of radical social engineering at it's finest hour, and everything else that comes with it: the (false) projection that women are only good for bedding, looking at as a "piece of meat", similar objectification, and nothing else. Projecting that women are worthless of being loved, outside of their bodies, and are only good or valuable for what their bodies have to offer alone. For all those extolling the virtues of the adult industry, let me ask you this: would you really want your daughters, engaged in these kinds of activities? Seriously, fathers, would you?? Would you want your sisters, your mothers, your nieces, hypothetically working as adult actresses? Somehow I gravely doubt it. My point is: all adult actresses are ultimately all someone's daughters, mothers, sisters, nieces...and the adult industry is the antithesis of the ideal of all kinds of love: romantic, family, and otherwise. The online adult industry is one reason why I at times seriously doubt that the invention of the Internet was really a good thing, at all...as it is, maybe we would have been better off without it...
Last edited by Phoenix2017; 01-24-2012 at 05:09 AM..
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Now if he likes it more than my vagina, he's fired
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