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Personally, I have to admit to some "racism" with regard to my preferences - better defined as to who I am sexually attracted to. But this is not because of race/nationality, but simply what females "turn me on" sexually by their physical appearance, which is the first thing I (most males?) are attracted to - and this varies from person to person. Personally, while I am white, I find African American females particularly sexually attractive. Asians, not so much, but there are exceptions, Middle Eastern- 50/50 - same as European/American females. The next guy - he will see it entirely different.
I do not consider myself the least bit racist in terms of the person him or herself - it's simply sexual attraction based on physical characteristics of the particular female I am observing, and how I, as a sexual being, react.
Personally, I have to admit to some "racism" with regard to my preferences - better defined as to who I am sexually attracted to. But this is not because of race/nationality, but simply what females "turn me on" sexually by their physical appearance, which is the first thing I (most males?) are attracted to - and this varies from person to person. Personally, while I am white, I find African American females particularly sexually attractive. Asians, not so much, but there are exceptions, Middle Eastern- 50/50 - same as European/American females. The next guy - he will see it entirely different.
I do not consider myself the least bit racist in terms of the person him or herself - it's simply sexual attraction based on physical characteristics of the particular female I am observing, and how I, as a sexual being, react.
are there certain features or skin tones that you find the most attractive with african american women?
I had to look this up because I couldn't believe my eyes! No offense, but the European dynasties are very conservative, as you know well yourself... Not only is she black, but she's also 11 years older than he is! They met when he was 28 and she was 39! I don't know what this woman has to put such a spell on him, but good for her!
FYI, there are more members of the royal families of Europe who are married to/have relationships with/have children with Black women more than any other race.
Count Ferdinand and Countess Mary von Habsburg of Austria
Baron Christian and Baroness Cecile de Massy of Monaco
Prince Albert of Monaco and Nicole Coste (they have a son together)
There are a few more that I can't think of right now...
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Back to the rest of my thoughts... Cali, while I think you have many valid points, I'm sure you're well aware that the women in the pictures you show are more the exception than the rule. I think you're coming down on your sistas a little too strong and you're a little unfair as I'm also sure you're aware that most of these women are beautiful!
Now, I would agree that some things like weight, attitude, and style (or lack thereof) can be fixed.
However, none of the women you show look like this, let's say,http://img.chan4chan.com/img/2009-12-06/1260129410949.jpg, and many black women do look like this... Granted, every race has better and worse specimens, but I think it's the latter women who complain...
The two girls in your last image are young and there is nothing wrong that a hairstylist, make-up artist, a wardrobe stylish and a personal trainer can't fix.
As to "coming down too hard on my sistas", I like to think of it as being direct about a topic that is brought up time and time again. Trust me when I say that everyone else, besides other Black women, are only getting the abbreviated (clean) version of this topic.
We, as Black women, need a wake up call. Many of the Black women who are constantly complaining about not being able to find a man are unwilling to take a good, long hard look at themselves and make a few changes.
They do not want to change anything, improve anything about themselves. All they want is for Black men to "come back home". That's it. But honestly, that ship has sailed. It truly is time for a reality check here.
I had to look this up because I couldn't believe my eyes! No offense, but the European dynasties are very conservative, as you know well yourself... Not only is she black, but she's also 11 years older than he is! They met when he was 28 and she was 39! I don't know what this woman has to put such a spell on him, but good for her! [quote/]
FYI, there are more members of the royal families of Europe who are married to/have relationships with/have children with Black women more than any other race.
Count Ferdinand and Countess Mary von Habsburg of Austria
Baron Christian and Baroness Cecile de Massy of Monaco
Prince Albert of Monaco and Nicole Coste (they have a son together)
There are a few more that I can't think of right now...
The two girls in your last image are young and there is nothing wrong that a hairstylist, make-up artist, a wardrobe stylish and a personal trainer can't fix.
As to "coming down too hard on my sistas", I like to think of it as being direct about a topic that is brought up time and time again. Trust me when I say that everyone else, besides other Black women, are only getting the abbreviated (clean) version of this topic.
We, as Black women, need a wake up call. Many of the Black women who are constantly complaining about not being able to find a man are unwilling to take a good, long hard look at themselves and make a few changes.
They do not want to change anything, improve anything about themselves. All they want is for Black men to "come back home". That's it. But honestly, that ship has sailed. It truly is time for a reality check here.
I see a lot of black guys with white girls/women who are unkempt, slovenly, ill-mannered, and frankly, just slobs. Sometimes I see these couples and think to myself - there are tons of proper, attractive, well-groomed and downright sexy black women who are single - why are you dating/married to this white slob? Are these black guys "racist" in a sense? I can't think of any explantion Can you explain?
I see a lot of black guys with white girls/women who are unkempt, slovenly, ill-mannered, and frankly, just slobs. Sometimes I see these couples and think to myself - there are tons of proper, attractive, well-groomed and downright sexy black women who are single - why are you dating/married to this white slob? Are these black guys "racist" in a sense? I can't think of any explantion Can you explain?
For fear of being "smacked down" I will just say that WM/BW relationships tend to be more of an equal balance as far as educational status, professional status, and socioeconomic status(ie based on common interests on a larger scale)...and BM/WW relationships tend to run the gamet.
FYI, there are more members of the royal families of Europe who are married to/have relationships with/have children with Black women more than any other race.
Wow, I knew Europe changed a lot since I live here, but I didn't realize to what extent as I don't really follow royal news.
Of course, I wouldn't consider this woman a black woman per se...
FYI, there are more members of the royal families of Europe who are married to/have relationships with/have children with Black women more than any other race.
Count Ferdinand and Countess Mary von Habsburg of Austria
Baron Christian and Baroness Cecile de Massy of Monaco
Prince Albert of Monaco and Nicole Coste (they have a son together)
There are a few more that I can't think of right now...
The two girls in your last image are young and there is nothing wrong that a hairstylist, make-up artist, a wardrobe stylish and a personal trainer can't fix.
As to "coming down too hard on my sistas", I like to think of it as being direct about a topic that is brought up time and time again. Trust me when I say that everyone else, besides other Black women, are only getting the abbreviated (clean) version of this topic.
We, as Black women, need a wake up call. Many of the Black women who are constantly complaining about not being able to find a man are unwilling to take a good, long hard look at themselves and make a few changes.
They do not want to change anything, improve anything about themselves. All they want is for Black men to "come back home". That's it. But honestly, that ship has sailed. It truly is time for a reality check here.
Thanx I really like seeing the photo of the very natural looking darkskin Black lady with her husband.
FYI, there are more members of the royal families of Europe who are married to/have relationships with/have children with Black women more than any other race.
Count Ferdinand and Countess Mary von Habsburg of Austria
Baron Christian and Baroness Cecile de Massy of Monaco
Prince Albert of Monaco and Nicole Coste (they have a son together)
There are a few more that I can't think of right now...
I think it is a little different in Europe. Stereotyping here, but I have met far more European men who were really into darker women. They were completely fascinated/excited/intrigued and complimentary. And frankly Europeans in general seem to be far more interested and accepting of darker skin, there appears to be less "stigma" based on my experiences.
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They met when he was 28 and she was 39! I don't know what this woman has to put such a spell on him, but good for her!
