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No it's not, I don't think there are men here who just want to satisfy themselves when having sex.
Or are there?
Yes, there are. One guy admitted that when he's having a ONS, he doesn't bother to give his partner an "O". He reserves that for women he has more respect for, women he has a relationship with of some duration. I think that's not an uncommon m.o.
Considering the fact that women aren't likely to orgasm from penetration alone, and men can, I'd say it's more likely that the women are getting the worse end of the deal.
Still not answering the question. But by your answer, you seem to indicate that you would not be interested in having sex with someone you don't know well unless you knew there would be an orgasm to make it worthwhile. Yes?
Still not answering the question. But by your answer, you seem to indicate that you would not be interested in having sex with someone you don't know well unless you knew there would be an orgasm to make it worthwhile. Yes?
So what does this mean? That it's ok to give up and skip her needs, and just use her to get yourself off? And men are surprised they have trouble picking up women?! How eager would you be to have sex if you weren't allowed to have an orgasm? Why don't guys get this?
You have completely misunderstood me. I don't think it is ok to skip a woman's needs to just have my fun and then leave. That is just plain wrong and unacceptable to me. If she doesn't reach the level of satisfaction she wants then I don't want to reach mine either. To me the woman must be satisfied first then me. I wouldn' accept it any other way. All I did was make an observation about the biological difference between women and men when it come to sex. Is it ok to just reach your level of pleasure and then just leave without pleasing her as well? My answer is ABSOLUTELY NOT. I would never ever do that.
You have completely misunderstood me. I don't think it is ok to skip a woman's needs to just have my fun and then leave. That is just plain wrong and unacceptable to me. If she doesn't reach the level of satisfaction she wants then I don't want to reach mine either. To me the woman must be satisfied first then me. I wouldn' accept it any other way. All I did was make an observation about the biological difference between women and men when it come to sex. Is it ok to just reach your level of pleasure and then just leave without pleasing her as well? My answer is ABSOLUTELY NOT. I would never ever do that.
And yet, men do. It is not always their fault though. Only 25% of women have orgasms 100% of the time, compared to 90% of men.
So men: with those odds, would you be looking for sex at the same rate you do now? Would you value it as much? Would you still find it hard to live without it as a constant in your life?
You have completely misunderstood me. I don't think it is ok to skip a woman's needs to just have my fun and then leave. That is just plain wrong and unacceptable to me. If she doesn't reach the level of satisfaction she wants then I don't want to reach mine either. To me the woman must be satisfied first then me. I wouldn' accept it any other way. All I did was make an observation about the biological difference between women and men when it come to sex. Is it ok to just reach your level of pleasure and then just leave without pleasing her as well? My answer is ABSOLUTELY NOT. I would never ever do that.
To be honest - it's not just about selfish men. Sometimes it just takes awhile to figure out how to orgasm with someone new. Sometimes it happens right away - and sometimes it doesn't. It's not always the guy's fault. So - it's not really about - would you still pursue sex with anyone when you could wind up with a selfish partner. It's about - would you still pursue sex with anyone when you know there is a large chance that you will not orgasm. If pursuing sex is all about getting off - would you still pursue it as vehemently if there was a big change that you wouldn't be getting off?
And yet, men do. It is not always their fault though. Only 25% of women have orgasms 100% of the time, compared to 90% of men.
So men: with those odds, would you be looking for sex at the same rate you do now? Would you value it as much? Would you still find it hard to live without it as a constant in your life?
Eh, if partners communicated with each other, they would make sure that each of them were satisfied.
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