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Why is it so incredibly difficult for most men to be successful with women?
It's a mathematically absurd question. If there are some men who are more successful with more women, the smaller number of the more successful men must be balanced out by larger number of the less successful men who gave up their "fair share" to the more successful guys. The law of conservation of the human mass. There are no losers without winners, and vice versa.
Women might want sex as much as men but it sure doesn't seem that way to me. Maybe in their middle age and it a committed relationship but that doesn't speak for all ages and circumstances in general.
basically, women have voluntary dry spells, men aren't good enough
a woman who doesn't look like she belongs under a bridge or in a kennel can wait around and eventually get SOMEONE, yeah he might not be of her standards, but the less attractive you are the lower your standards should be
meanwhile, a man with no game will be single for the rest of his life because women won't ever approach him unless he's ****ing spectacular, and him approaching her will just net a swift rejection or fake phone # or something
also keep in mind that men mostly have to do all the work and women do the deciding from what she's given
basically, women have voluntary dry spells, men aren't good enough
a woman who doesn't look like she belongs under a bridge or in a kennel can wait around and eventually get SOMEONE, yeah he might not be of her standards, but the less attractive you are the lower your standards should be
meanwhile, a man with no game will be single for the rest of his life because women won't ever approach him unless he's ****ing spectacular, and him approaching her will just net a swift rejection or fake phone # or something
also keep in mind that men mostly have to do all the work and women do the deciding from what she's given
Embracing the language of economic opportunity should work. If you work hard, if you do this and that right, you can be successful with as many women as you want, sky is the limit. If you are not, see above, it's all your fault. Arithmetic be damned.
basically, women have voluntary dry spells, men aren't good enough
a woman who doesn't look like she belongs under a bridge or in a kennel can wait around and eventually get SOMEONE, yeah he might not be of her standards, but the less attractive you are the lower your standards should be
meanwhile, a man with no game will be single for the rest of his life because women won't ever approach him unless he's ****ing spectacular, and him approaching her will just net a swift rejection or fake phone # or something
also keep in mind that men mostly have to do all the work and women do the deciding from what she's given
Men choose who gets approached. if they don't approach the women who are interested in them, and if they don't react when those women approach them, the women are SOL. Some women go years without being approached by anyone at all. Everyone has involuntary dry spells. It's difficult for everyone, men don't have it any worse off than women.
Embracing the language of economic opportunity should work. If you work hard, if you do this and that right, you can be successful with as many women as you want, sky is the limit. If you are not, see above, it's all your fault. Arithmetic be damned.
you sound like a good dude with good guy friends. It is quite rare to find guys like this these days. Most of the guys I met are just into some fun with gals and not really serious about having a relationship, let alone a marriage. The fact that your guy friends remain single for very very long before they get attached just means one thing to me: they have standards and they just want to wait for the right gal to come along. For gals, as long as they are not bad looking, it is very easy for them to get guys..it just works like that..
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