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I don't need professional help! I'm just out of the Matrix...I know the truth about women, i'm not naive!
Show your girlfriend this whole thread, especially this post, and then see if she still wants to marry you. My guess is that the situation will fix itself...
I won't do anything i'll let her talk to me, if she wants to wait ok, if not it's better we break up. I'll not marry and have kids "now" just because she wants!
I honestly do not believe that you are in the right frame of mind to be in a relationship at all - much less getting married and having children. Let your girlfriend read all of your posts on here. Then call a therapist and let them read all of your posts on here.
OP: IF you don't want to get married and have children then don't. She might leave as kids is something most women want, and they want the kids to have a father to help support them. If she can't get that from you she may well leave. But remember that having kids doesn't mean that she will not leave some time in the future, after the children she wants are born. Consider that you're also taking a risk with a woman that is already divorce one time. She might possibly see you only as a means to and end, the end being the kids.
I'm 30 she's 33...We've been dating for almost a year, recently we had a fight about having children as i'm not ready for marriage and kids but i think she wants because of her biological clock. We both are divorced but she said she wants to think about her life if she wants marriage/kids or not but i think that deep inside her heart she already wants. I like her a lot but i think we should focus more in our life, our dating, get to know each other better, our relatiohship and let our future our destiny decide for both of us... it's too soon to talk about marriage and kids but I understand her. I'm not dating her just for dating, i love her i want her but i don't want to rush things, i'm just careful even with we're both are divorced so i think we should go slow...i'm not sure if she would agree with me. What to do? What should I tell her?
Anyway I'm very sad because she said she wants to think about us but i believe she wants do break up!
You *like her a lot* after one year of dating and need to get to know her better?
Then you state you *love* her?
Which is it? If you don't know after one year of dating if you like her or love her and have the need to get to know her better you are with the wrong woman.
You should tell her goodbye and wish you well.
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