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Old 12-29-2016, 10:01 AM
 
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The problem is that neither her nor her father do anything to support these kids, no child support is paid (he is now like 4-5k in arrears)
Just caught this. Why should HER father pay child support? Is the dad actually...granddad?

Stranger and stranger.
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Old 12-29-2016, 10:01 AM
 
Location: Grand Prairie
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Just a thought...try not to get her pregnant. That would be the forever meal ticket, which she apparently tried on the guy before you.
No worries, I fire blanks..
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Old 12-29-2016, 10:03 AM
 
Location: Grand Prairie
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Just caught this. Why should HER father pay child support? Is the dad actually...granddad?

Stranger and stranger.
Their father (as in her children's father).. but yah.. that would be strange, not sure I could stomach that at all.
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Old 12-29-2016, 10:04 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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No worries, I fire blanks..
Famous last words.
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Old 12-29-2016, 10:04 AM
 
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I dunno, incest seems to be all the rage, judging from today's posts!

Good to know you are "not sure" you could handle that. You may have some vague boundaries after all.
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Old 12-29-2016, 10:06 AM
 
Location: Wonderland
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You should be mad at yourself for moving in with a woman and her family without realizing any of this. Her not working should have come up fairly soon in the dating process. No conversations about money/work philosophies before shacking up? Sounds like you didn't do any due diligence, took this woman and her kids in, and now you want to get annoyed about this stuff. You can't force her to work, but you can decide how long you're willing to deal with it before they get the boot.

I feel bad for the kids. All of them.
BINGO.

So many red flags, it looks like a red flag convention to me. Is this guy actually saying he really didn't know that 1) she refuses to work, 2) she can't even drive, and 3) she's not getting any child support prior to shacking up with her - AND HER KIDS?

Playing house isn't the same thing as marriage - thank goodness. OP, get out and get your head together. It's not too late.
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Old 12-29-2016, 10:09 AM
 
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BINGO.

So many red flags, it looks like a red flag convention to me. Is this guy actually saying he really didn't know that 1) she refuses to work, 2) she can't even drive, and 3) she's not getting any child support prior to shacking up with her - AND HER KIDS?

Playing house isn't the same thing as marriage - thank goodness. OP, get out and get your head together. It's not too late.
Quite right. I am sure your children's mother will be relieved that they don't have to be a witness to your dick-silliness any longer.
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Old 12-29-2016, 10:09 AM
 
Location: South Bay Native
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You met an unemployed, homeless, irresponsible cute little redhead with two mouths to feed (who are not supported by either parent), moved her into your (and your two children's) home and your life, and now you are coming to the forum to figure out what to do with your unemployed, homeless, irresponsible (but cute!) redhead with two unsupported mouths to feed.

This is rich.
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Old 12-29-2016, 10:19 AM
 
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You met an unemployed, homeless, irresponsible cute little redhead with two mouths to feed (who are not supported by either parent), moved her into your (and your two children's) home and your life, and now you are coming to the forum to figure out what to do with your unemployed, homeless, irresponsible (but cute!) redhead with two unsupported mouths to feed.

This is rich.
Yeah...he even admits he's nuts, what was the question again? How to make women look stupid and useless? I'm getting the vibe...

but look how cute the little red headed one is!
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Old 12-29-2016, 10:21 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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but look how cute the little red headed one is!
The tramp stamp in on the front?

Well, I am getting old...
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