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More, validating that I am not being crazy.. I think the reality is that I jumped at the first bit of attention from an attractive woman after divorcing and didn't really think things through.
I think tonight is going to be a sit down and talk about how I think we need to at the very least live apart and date if we want but I don't want any part in supporting her. Honestly, I don't expect her to stick around and date me, but I will offer that as an option.
Part of me feels bad.. but every time we argue, It comes down to this so she has had more than a fair warning.
It seems strange that you have not defended her even once on this thread after all the namecalling. Either you agree that she is a no-good tramp and crap mom OR....
It seems strange that you have not defended her even once on this thread after all the namecalling. Either you agree that she is a no-good tramp and crap mom OR....
Yes, you made that clear in the first post where you described how much crummier you treat her kids than your own. Punishing children for their parent's failings is really classy.
OK, not-troll, how about answering some questions?
How old are your children and how do they feel about their new "mom"?
4 and 6, they seem to like her but she is not trying to be mom.
Why did it take you so so to get divorced if your wife had already moved on? Divorce is expensive.. cost me about 10k.. not including child support. Honestly I had some hope she would come to her senses and try to reconcile, but I realize now that I couldn't reconcile even if I wanted to.
How long did you know this redheaded bint before moving her in...and how did you meet. Not that long, maybe 3 months.. online dating
Why are you so exhausted after a typical workday in a sedentary job? Fairly high stress job.. 6 figures in the IT industry.. Mental work can be fairly exhausting... additionally I am naturally an introvert.. and I tend to use up all of my socialization energy at work.
Are you posting from work now? On my phone, but yah.. currently at lunch.. my boss doesn't care as long as I get my job done which I do..
And finally... please tell us what reaction you have gotten from your friends, parents, ex-wife and coworkers about this little arrangement? Honestly, I don't discuss this kind of stuff with coworkers, parents aren't around anymore.. ex-wife is not thrilled..
Because it does seem as if this story exists entirely in a vacuum.
Yes, you made that clear in the first post where you described how much crummier you treat her kids than your own. Punishing children for their parent's failings is really classy.
She complains about it, but I don't think it's true..
For example, I will take my kids to movies or buy them toys but I don't do the same to her kids.. I don't do it in front of her kids or anything.. or we will go out to eat when my kids are here but not when hers are (my reasoning is that she can't afford it)..
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