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Whatever the case, he is at least guilty of not communicating with you, breaking up with you on your birthday and not giving you more insight into why he broke it off. He handled it poorly, to say the least, but now that I know more, I'm not convinced he was just using you for sex all along.
Thanks PA2UK very insightful replies! It all helps to truly move on fully. Really appreciate it, and all the others.
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U're safe dear .. bless u from all those hungry wolves ! .. sex is not just a feeling ..its a bond of emotions ! .. u would have felt worst if he broke up after the act ..luckily u made a right decision and im proud of u girl ..no need to feel guilty of it .. give yourself some time to heal .. think about it on a positive note .. i was used too and im trying to cope with this pain ..i've come a long way ahead ..so shall u
He sounds like he was just using you all along. A man that loves a woman will respect her choice not to do public sex, and if he really has a problem with it, he will certainly wait until at least the day after her birthday to break it off. He is a selfish pig, and you are lucky he is gone now. He must be trying to convince some other woman to do something weird sexually right about now. Since he is horrible at convincing women, he is probably getting all kinds of hell no's.
He sounds like he was just using you all along. A man that loves a woman will respect her choice not to do public sex, and if he really has a problem with it, he will certainly wait until at least the day after her birthday to break it off. He is a selfish pig, and you are lucky he is gone now. He must be trying to convince some other woman to do something weird sexually right about now. Since he is horrible at convincing women, he is probably getting all kinds of hell no's.
Yep, he's probably already stalking his next victim.
I'm so sorry you were hurt by this man. I believe most women can relate to your post, I know I can. Do not beat yourself about it. Your only fault was being too trusting and there's no shame in that. Remember every failed relationship brings you one step closer to the relationship that will sustain you. Best wishes.
Hi, I am just so sad, down and low, as I deeply loved him. Feel so awful now, so bad and stuck and part of it is not knowing the true reality.
You did not "deeply love him". You were infatuated. I don't know how old you are, but just think of the experience as a lesson, move on, and don't beat yourself up over it.
We've all made mistakes with men. It's how we learn.
you did not "deeply love him". You were infatuated. I don't know how old you are, but just think of the experience as a lesson, move on, and don't beat yourself up over it.
We've all made mistakes with men. It's how we learn.
You did not "deeply love him". You were infatuated. I don't know how old you are, but just think of the experience as a lesson, move on, and don't beat yourself up over it.
We've all made mistakes with men. It's how we learn.
All of us go through something similar at one point in our lives...you live, you learn and you move on....
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It all helps to truly move on fully. Really appreciate it, and all the others. 
..no need to feel guilty of it .. give yourself some time to heal .. think about it on a positive note .. i was used too and im trying to cope with this pain ..i've come a long way ahead ..so shall u 
