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Women wear "sexy" outfits probably to move around freely in. If you want to meet people at the gym, go to the socialization events they have. Most gyms have those at least once a month.
If you are going to keep interrupting people's training, you will keep getting these types of comebacks.
Women wear sexy clothese for any one of a thousand reasons, and not a single one of them is a license for a man to assume she's available.
He wasn't even hitting on persay. He was asking her about her training. She blew up on the poor guy with roidrage. It's all part of the game for her trying to "grow one". It ain't workin' with "some" men. They would give her some of it back and should.
If you are going to keep interrupting people's training, you will keep getting these types of comebacks.
The OP stated specifically that he did not interrupt her training and waited for her to finish and I simply don't think there is ever an excuse to be that rude to someone who is trying to make polite conversation or even if he was trying to ask her out. It's the sort of thing that gives women a bad name.
Wow. That is rough. This post and the one about the "hot" but short 5 foot 9 guy is making me hesitate on approaching women. I dont mind being rejected but getting rude brutal putdowns hardly seems worth the gains i expect from approaching women.
i would vandalize her car
or i'd be glad she was rude because you dont want to waste your time with a rude btch anyway. think of it as your lucky day, what if she gave u a shot then 2 years from now you're in a relationship with her and she's treating you like a piece of crap.
dodged a bullet. and you're 5'6 i would've thought you'd be over the short jokes by now man.
What...the...hell? Ok, I know I am not the biggest guy in the weight room, but I am decently big and strong for my size (5'6", 173 lbs and just performed a max bench of 325 two weeks ago.) I actually felt proud of the gains I was making, but damn, that freaking hurt. Not just from the rejection itself, but if my accomplishments aren't really accomplishments at all. I know I'll probably never break that 200 lb mark, but damnit I train extremely hard, and I don't "use" anything except protein.
Ugh, sorry, I know I shouldn't taken that personally, but that hurt a lot.
The way she spoke to you is rude and totally uncalled for, but you are taking this rejection way too seriously. You don't know this woman and even if you did why should anything she has to say carry any weight to it? Her words are meaningless, insignificant and do not negate your accomplishments because there are alot of people out there who can't lift the amount of weight that you can. It also took alot of guts to approach a woman like this in the first place,because some men that are interested would be intimidated to do so.
Dust yourself off and move on.
OP - I have met a few people in my life who were breathtakingly rude. My reaction? Laugh in their faces, toss my hair and walk away.
People who are so incredibly up themselves are really just miserable, miserable people who find little to no joy in anything. Her major goal is to compete in a sport that is pretty much irrelevant and ego-driven...what does that tell you about her if you think about it objectively?
She has "a few tickets on herself" as we say in Australia, and is really just not a very nice person. Also, consider she may well be using some sort of steroid that could be making her into an agressive snarling he/she. You just don't know, but one thing I do know is NEVER to take the opinion of a **** to heart.
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i would vandalize her car
or i'd be glad she was rude because you dont want to waste your time with a rude btch anyway. think of it as your lucky day, what if she gave u a shot then 2 years from now you're in a relationship with her and she's treating you like a piece of crap.
dodged a bullet. and you're 5'6 i would've thought you'd be over the short jokes by now man.
ON TO THE NEXT ONE!
Found it!! This will go nicely in this thread. This is what that sheman is laughing at. Like I said early on. The Ops stats are nearly identical.
Actually if i think about it again its not that bad. Just one womans opinion on what she finds attracive. The one about all of the women getting together and bagging on the 5 foot 9 short guy is worse
wow. but if it makes you feel better, i once had a girl tell me (in front of her friend) at a lounge, "we need you to leave so other guys can talk to us".
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