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There's an advantage to being in a state where a lot of White women grew up around Asian guys and are comfortable with them.
not really, you may have a small number but in most cases these are the same type of women who will stereotype asian men in all sorts of nasty ways since they are so used to seeing them
not really, you may have a small number but in most cases these are the same type of women who will stereotype asian men in all sorts of nasty ways since they are so used to seeing them
As opposed to places where Asian-Americans are a "novelty" and women stereotype them because they are not used to seeing them at all?
not really, you may have a small number but in most cases these are the same type of women who will stereotype asian men in all sorts of nasty ways since they are so used to seeing them
Haha I'm not moving man I'm fine right here in Socal
You would do good to move out of Southern California and move to states like Iowa, Minnesota, and North Dakota for just a short stay. I read an online blog story about an Asian guy who had a very easy time dating attractive White women in those states because he was more so of a novelty and there weren't that many Asian guys there for the women to get with. He was exotic instead of just another Asian guy. Now I read a blog post called "The Invitation: Tom Decides to visit North Dakota", the post has made it big on several forums and I found it pretty interesting.
Some stylish and fit Asian dude goes to North Dakota and sees mind shattering results with White females than he has anywhere else (including Southern Cal and other areas).
Just google "The Invitation: Tom Decides to visit North Dakota" and give it a very good read. I found it pretty interesting and it had some decent comments on it too. It is a wordpress blog but the guys writing it are well respected.
But the women in Iowa, Minnesota, the Dakotas, etc. are not necessarily very stylish or fit. And why would he want to be a "novelty" if he is looking for real connections and relationships?
He doesn't need to move, he just needs to have confidence and make the first move. Non-Asian women do date and marry Asian men; I have and I know several non-Asian women who are married to Asian men.
But the women in Iowa, Minnesota, the Dakotas, etc. are not necessarily very stylish or fit. And why would he want to be a "novelty" if he is looking for real connections and relationships?
He doesn't need to move, he just needs to have confidence and make the first move. Non-Asian women do date and marry Asian men; I have and I know several non-Asian women who are married to Asian men.
I completely agree. However, like 99% of young men out there, there is a fear of rejection in my mind.
Im just wondering what percentage of white women in your area would be open to dating an Asian man? Please be honest
If you went out and asked 100 women for a date, chances are that a large majority will reject you. This is true no matter what your race.
As an exercise, start talking to girls you see every day. At the same time, if you see someone else you'd like to date, ask them in a non-creepy manner, knowing you'll likely get a rejection. The idea here is to get over the fear of rejection, so you'll be more confident later. During this time, one of the girls may show a little more interest in you. Ask her out with the confidence you'll survive a rejection.
As others have said, the percentages don't matter. All you need to know is that there are those of all races who will date Asians. All it takes is for you to ask the right person.
I think the Asian guys are starting to take off a bit more in the American media. I've been noticing for a few yrs seeing more in leading roles.
There is a show on TV called The Mentalist and we watch that show and there is an Asian character on there that Mrs. Chow would step over my dead body to go after.......
Well thanks for the classy post.
But what I'm trying to tell myself is that my desireability to women isn't dependent on some fictional character (or lack thereof) on a screen. I realize that the media can stir up certain stereotypes and prejudices against me but it in the end, it is who I am as an individual that will decide things. Agreed?
I don't know what part of my post lacked class
I was saying good things about Asian guys, If I would have dusted off some old stereotypes about being little geeky nerds, I could see the blatant hostility you'd have......
Once again...
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