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Old 05-14-2023, 01:03 PM
 
Location: Avignon, France
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Sorry for your loss Chow and Sea..
Happy Mother’s Day moms! Here we celebrate Mom’s Day on May 29th, but this year “ Fête des Mères “ will be celebrated on Sunday, June 4th.
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Old 05-15-2023, 03:23 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Thank you, everyone. I'm trying to celebrate today more than mourn. She was the absolute best. (And I hope this doesn't bring everyone's Mother's Day down.)

Fleetiebelle, I'm so sorry about your mom. Please let me know if I can ever help, with support, advice, anything like that.
Thanks so much, Sea! I'm glad you can remember the good times with your mom. I talked to my Mom for about a half an hour yesterday, which means we had the same conversation 5 or 6 times
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Old 05-15-2023, 05:04 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Sorry for your loss Chow and Sea..
Happy Mother’s Day moms! Here we celebrate Mom’s Day on May 29th, but this year “ Fête des Mères “ will be celebrated on Sunday, June 4th.
Thank you very much, Sydney. Enjoy your day(s)!

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Thanks so much, Sea! I'm glad you can remember the good times with your mom.
I just feel like it's the best way to honor her. And I know that's what she would want (my happiness).

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I talked to my Mom for about a half an hour yesterday, which means we had the same conversation 5 or 6 times
Lol, yeah, it's kind of scary.

I'm sure you've probably read up on it (tons of stuff online), but I thought I would mention "sundowner syndrome." It helps to be aware of that. Also, keeping familiar routines is important.

Another way of getting through it was, I always tried to remind myself that my mom had always loved me and that she wouldn't want me to feel this pain. Of course that isn't entirely possible, but it did help a lot. After she got to a certain point, she seemed very content, and that was a great relief to me. The overall situation was incredibly sad, but I was glad it was only hurting me at that point and not her. I know it sounds like I'm trying to martyr myself here, but that's exactly how I felt, and it made me feel better.

Anyway, I do wish you and your family the best of luck with this.
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Old 05-15-2023, 05:20 PM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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SeaOfGrass&Chow,
I am so very sorry that your beloved Mom has passed on.

I think she is up in heaven having some fun with friends she now has. My beloved Mom & Sis are there also.
Bless You (((hugs))).
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Old 05-15-2023, 05:27 PM
 
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Sea & Chow:

You have my sincere sympathy. She sounds like she was a wonderful woman, so I hope you have many good memories to help through the tears and eventually make you smile. Those of us with wonderful moms are certainly lucky.

BIG HUGS
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Old 05-16-2023, 10:05 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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SeaOfGrass&Chow,
I am so very sorry that your beloved Mom has passed on.

I think she is up in heaven having some fun with friends she now has. My beloved Mom & Sis are there also.
Bless You (((hugs))).
Thank you, Hawk. Maybe they've met?

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Sea & Chow:

You have my sincere sympathy. She sounds like she was a wonderful woman, so I hope you have many good memories to help through the tears and eventually make you smile. Those of us with wonderful moms are certainly lucky.

BIG HUGS
I appreciate it, meta. We have so many good memories. She was so fun. And, yes, I realize how lucky I was, and still am, to have had a mom like her.
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Old 05-16-2023, 01:52 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I just wanted to say one last thing. I forgot to mention that on Mother's Day, Chow brought home flowers in honor of my mom (he even remembered her favorites). Totally surprised me.

Okay. That's all. lol
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Old 05-17-2023, 01:10 PM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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I just wanted to say one last thing. I forgot to mention that on Mother's Day, Chow brought home flowers in honor of my mom (he even remembered her favorites). Totally surprised me.

Okay. That's all. lol
That's very nice & thoughtful...

Carnations are one of the favorites for my mom & my wife, cuz they smell so good.
Often, some folks would sell them fresh, on the side of country roads, where i stopped for some.
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Old 05-17-2023, 01:22 PM
 
Location: In the bee-loud glade
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Good man, Chow.

To both of you, SeaOfGrass and Chow, I'm sorry for your loss.
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Old 05-18-2023, 01:37 AM
 
Location: Moreno Valley, Ca
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I just wanted to say one last thing. I forgot to mention that on Mother's Day, Chow brought home flowers in honor of my mom (he even remembered her favorites). Totally surprised me.

Okay. That's all. lol
I love this.
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