Husband doing things for others, but doesn't for me.
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When you love your spouse, do you not WANT to do special things for them? Without being asked? I used to do special sweet things for my husband all the time. After only 3 years of nothing in return, I gave up. I know guys don't think like we do, but still, if you love someone, you are happy to do things to make them smile...without being asked. Geez how special is that, to have to tell your spouse step by step what you want and how to do it? It's called growing up and thinking for yourself instead of being told every step to make. I for one have had it with my husband never ever trying to make me smile. I can even say flat out what I want, but if it doesn't benefit him in some way, forget it. I'm sorry but guys (or women) who need to be told step by step how to SURPRISE them and make them feel special and loved, are not really in love.
That's just mean. Sorry but I'd be telling him he needs to step up and treat me better or I'm gone. Little things like this are like saying F You to your partner. My husband would never be mean to me like that. I'd say counseling
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