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If you don't call him, you ARE rejecting him though. Yet, he hasn't invested anything in you, and can easily move on to the next woman he's interested in.
I send out the resume to five companies, I'll go with the one who calls me back.
1. 45 is not exactly the prime dating years. You don't look as good as you used to look.
2. Men in that age range are also no quite as woman obsessed. They have less desire.
3. More women are taken, cynical or otherwise complicated. So why ask? Its not like in college when she is likely single.
4. Some men are pursing younger women and there are fewer of them. In that age range the numbers are skewed against women after 40.
Sorry to say but after 40 women need to start chasing men to get one that is suitable.
Although I agree on some of your points, I disagree with your last sentence. No man wants a woman who will chase him and pursue him, especially if he is not that into her. It will make her look more desperate and can you think of a bigger turn-off?
Call me old-fashioned, but I think there is no bigger turn-off then when a woman starts actively chasing after a man, no matter what age she is.
The key is to simply take the best care of yourself and your health, be independent and enjoy single life so then even at 45, you are a complete knock-out (and I know so many women after 40 that I look at and say: "damn, I want to look just as good when I'm her age).
It's rare for a woman to give me her number though, out of the blue. Usually, she just sits down and starts talking to me if she is interested in me. And, at that point, she's already caught me.
It's rare for a woman to give me her number though, out of the blue. Usually, she just sits down and starts talking to me if she is interested in me. And, at that point, she's already caught me.
Sometimes asking for a phone number works wonders.
If a woman starts talking to you, she is expressing an interest, but she is opening herself to be pursued at this point. The rest is in your hands.
plenty of women out there that would rather just give out their number then not answer later rather then say no to a guys face
I do this all the time, so it could be why the OP is asking the question. I can't say no to anyone. If I walk by a group of Boy Scouts, I leave with at least 10 raffle tickets I'll never use. It's ridiculous.
Sometimes asking for a phone number works wonders.
If a woman starts talking to you, she is expressing an interest, but she is opening herself to be pursued at this point. The rest is in your hands.
Exactly.
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