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All things are not equal. Men and women are never going to be completely equal in all things - we are just different. Not being equal is not a bad thing. Men will never be able to have babies. Women will never have a penis.
Never say never!
With the miracle of modern science and technology one day, it may become a possibility!
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I absolutely know what you mean there. For example, sometimes actresses playing certain characters can be very attractive to me, while out of the context of that character they don't have that draw for me, even though they're still objectively attractive.
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I don't think you really know what your main point is. What I get as your main point is that you are sick of people talking about how beautiful women are because you are not a woman.
My point is probably that women aren't overall as beautiful as they are often made out to be as a whole. That most women, like men, are pretty average. And they shouldn't feel bad because of it. That you shouldn't have to be called beautiful to feel good about yourself. Why not feel good about being called a nice person? Well I feel that way, others may disagree of course.
Well again I don't think I'm overtly bitter towards women - but as I just admitted, sometimes the bitter thoughts surface. I really do believe in gender equality and all that, but I think there are some things that are just wrong/weird about society and that causes me to take it out on people in my mind.
That's not normal. There are all kinds of inequities in society, but to be so focused on them, creating issues out of nothing, and taking it out on people "in your mind", is a problem that you need to deal with. It's less society that is the problem but rather your mind's focus and obsession with things, that is the problem.
Sometimes. There was a girl on these forums, for instance, who posted pictures of herself and was very attractive, but a very nasty person inside.
Sometimes it's more of a raw sexual attractiveness. Which reminds of a lesbian I know...ugly as sin. Actually, once I got to know her I softened on that, but she still has a very unattractive face. Yet she has the NICEST ass, which would make it all worth it. I had the pleasure of going jetskiing with her.
If you remember back far enough I started a thread 'are women unfunny' actually disputing that very idea that men were innately more funny.
Well it matters because it's a way in which some women and men totally devalue men.How would you feel if men started saying that they found men sexier, they could live without women? Wouldn't make you feel very good, would it?
Saying that the female form is more pleasing isn't the same thing as saying it's sexier - and has nothing to do with living with out men. These aren't even in the same ball park. I wouldn't get involved with a man that felt he could live with out women - why would I? And whoever I'm with should think that I'M the sexiest most beautiful PERSON in the world. I don't care what men think - I only care what the man I'm with thinks. Some men on this forum think that a woman's worth is only related to her looks, that women are past their prime at 25, that women are cowards, that women should pay for dates, that women should be working moms, that women should be stay at home moms, that women should be yada yada yada. I could care less. My confidence in myself doesn't come from other people or from society. Yours shouldn't either.
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Yup.
Sometimes. There was a girl on these forums, for instance, who posted pictures of herself and was very attractive, but a very nasty person inside.
Sometimes it's more of a raw sexual attractiveness. Which reminds of a lesbian I know...ugly as sin. Actually, once I got to know her I softened on that, but she still has a very unattractive face. Yet she has the NICEST ass, which would make it all worth it. I had the pleasure of going jetskiing with her.
Lesbians just seem to have a more forceful sexuality that most straight women do not have. You know they can be dominant. I suppose it's a pity they're lesbians! Some bi women fit this mould too.
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Saying that the female form is more pleasing isn't the same thing as saying it's sexier - and has nothing to do with living with out men. These aren't even in the same ball park. I wouldn't get involved with a man that felt he could live with out women - why would I? And whoever I'm with should think that I'M the sexiest most beautiful PERSON in the world. I don't care what men think - I only care what the man I'm with thinks. Some men on this forum think that a woman's worth is only related to her looks, that women are past their prime at 25, that women are cowards, that women should pay for dates, that women should be working moms, that women should be stay at home moms, that women should be yada yada yada. I could care less. My confidence in myself doesn't come from other people or from society. Yours shouldn't either.
Yes, you're right...for awhile I was disturbed because it seemed a lot of women were really lesbian/asexual (not that I truly believe that, but that's how wrapped up in it I was) so I thought, to hell with dating and stuff.
But when I meet someone cool I hope I'll stop thinking about that. Reading stuff on the internet instead of getting out in the real world doesn't help.
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Oh, enough already with this crap, Trimac. You've been posting threads like this for months now. It's obvious that you, like some of the others here, are a miserable failure with women and are using your spare time to lash out. You expect reactions like Chiel's because you know that your comments are offensive going into it. That is your intent: To offend. Despite your attempts to be passive-aggressive with it, and then come off all "who, me?" when people call you on it, the rest of us see through it.
It's trite. It's old. It's petty. It's lame. Find something constructive to do with your time, for the sake of your own mental health.
[note to self; come back and rep]
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