Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
Those problems are over and done with, but here come the stalkers looking through my old threads and acting like they have everything figured out, this is laughable, seriously.
Those problems are over and done with, but here come the stalkers looking through my old threads and acting like they have everything figured out, this is laughable, seriously.
So, you no longer care if she's screwing other dudes?
Because, if that's the case? It's time to move on.
Your OP reads like you think the secret way to prevent her from straying 10 years from now is to let her sleep around now.
That will not work.
__________________
When in doubt, check it out: FAQ
I'm suggesting this to her because it's something ALL young couples should do. I blame myself, and my awkward shyness around women in my younger years. And she needs to do it too, she always says she would like to spend her life with me, and move in with me. She's young she doesn't know any better, I'm doing this for her and me! I don't want to walk in and find out she cheated on me one day because she asked herself, "what if?" I'm trying to avoid that trouble and that pain.
You're saying here (previous page, this thread) you want her to sleep around before committing to you. So that means you don't care if she's in bed with other guys. So what you're saying is, you want both of you to experience other partners, then get back together, and have the same sweet, loving relationship you have now?
Yeah....that'll work.
It's starting to sound like you're not ready to commit yourself whole-heartedly to this wonderful gf you have. (I didn't say marriage, I said giving your heart to her.) If that's the case, why not just admit it, break up, risk throwing away the best thing that's ever happened to you so far, and spending years involved in drama with strangers, and just move on?
You're saying here (previous page, this thread) you want her to sleep around before committing to you. So that means you don't care if she's in bed with other guys. So what you're saying is, you want both of you to experience other partners, then get back together, and have the same sweet, loving relationship you have now?
Yeah....that'll work.
So what stick around and wait to get cheated on? Yes that's great. Either way, it's a dilemma.
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.
Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
smh
